econ boring, lets talk about love instead ft. M and P
M : dude I'm into people who give me respect and do stuff for me
not even like mega show of love or something
like if u love me, atleast show it through actions if not words
P : most humans on earth angane aanenn paranjaal would you believe?
M : yea dude everyone wants that
pashe namukku angane onnum
u live for certain people and they don't live for u back and that's ugh
M: It's not even frustrating, it's just sad
M: it's sometimes not even sad
It's a feeling that sadness and hurt and everything combines our ithu
like you constantly give give give
and you get this sliver in return
P : you're referring to altruism, the purest form of love.
sathyam paranjaal most people are obviously into symbiotic forms of love no, pure altruismnu humans built alla but yes athokke romentik aan ig
AT : Idk pashe instinctively nammal okke altruistic aayirun irikk ille
Like enik aloikkumbo expecting something in return feels taught
P: yeah love inte aa oru human definition is generally a mutual sense of beautiful understanding and nothing but care for the two people in that relationship
M: But love isn't always like that
humans arent built for complete and instinctual altruism. like oru extent kazhiyumbol their want for love to be returned slightly takes over and stuff, generally kore aalkaarkk anganeyaa
because it's completely based on feelings
A : Ohhh yeahh true we act lovingly for validation athe trueee
P: yeah humans have the tendency to do that
AT : Most relationships we form okke it is because of our need for validation alle
P: philosophers and psychoanalysts argue that this is based on humansinte instinctual integration of 'greed' into their personality altho its obviously not exactly greed itself.
humans always have a WANT FOR MORE in most things they indulge in alle, so this is also related to that in a way
unlimited wants and limited resources
AT: Didn't fully get will act like I got it
P : a generally accepted form of love is a relationship where both people love and care for each other truly and genuinely.
but there is no right form of love. people act according to what they think is right. perhaps an altruist remains altruistic purely because their emotions tell them to, ykwim
AT: Ppl express love in all different ways
humans' need for validation is slightly based on the defined form of 'greed' that is designed into their minds.
M: true and that's what makes is different and beautiful
and sometimes that's the reason why we love someone
We love the way they express their love angane
AT: I had a point vro I forgot
M: Not literally random strangers but yea nammalkku ishtola aalukal
P: love maathram alla, nammal manassilaakkunna ellaam opinions, ideals and base kaaryangalum childhoodil ninnaanallo.
we are built by the way we grow up
M: yes, like trust, compassion, love anganathe kure sambhavangal
P: but love enna concept should generally be constantly evolving for each individual i think, which is purely because love isnt rigid
AT: Athond ee abusive parents olla ppl might always end up in toxic relationships
P: love and the idea of love, flows like water, and everyone should be accepting of how the idea of love flows around in their minds
P: yeah, negative ideals too, like anger, greed, things we find repulsive etc.etc.
P: all in all, i think people should just follow what they genuinely feel within their hearts, and form their opinions on love accordingly
AT: Considering this fully instinct ill pone correct aan n thonnan illa
nice reading conversations on love