um, hi :) could you help me find a sexuality? i think my sexual orientation is more dependent on gender presentation rather than actual gender, but i also am attracted to all gender presentations with a preference for fem gender presentations? if you could find a label that represents this id appreciate it sm!!! thank you in advance :)
let me see. many definitions of fem- and fin- were interpreted as an attraction to all genders but leaning attraction to femininity, or even sometimes feminine gender expression (presentation). however I notice some may find that kinda misleading the gender quality-based attraction-experiencing person as an "extrapersonally misgenderer" (meaning they are gendering the other folk they are attracted unintentionally and unconsciously), but in my point of view it's totally okay as it's in your head and sometimes it becomes uncontrollable, no matter how you want to change that.
therefore these terms are loaded/flooded with redefinitions and adjacent reconceptualizations. @mogai-monarchs created/posted pandro-/panandro- (attraction to masculinity in all genders/attraction to masculinity regardless of gender), which sounds pretty objective and consistent. I'm not sure if the femininity-attracted counterpart exists, which would be something like pan- and -gyn- I'm guessing. however it still doesn't specify it's a masculinity as a gender quality, as there's gender masculinity (something similar to mingender, mascgender, and masc-of-center (MoC)). so I wait clarifications on that case.
now, if you want to coin something, feel free. I know the prefix fe- existed somewhere for that, sadly it's still too close to the other variations of femi-, femina- etc etc. and while we are at it, if anything doesn't fit, I presume that nominflexible could be that, but that would be based on genderism/gender polarization or essentialism that make m. and f. genders as polar opposites.
