#overstimuated

[dreamdropdollop]

this user deals with overstimuation

[dreamdropdollop]

Kubby comforting Dream with getting overtsimmed.Kubby always had noise canceling earplugs in, and Dream doesn't think they need them until.. they need them. we do that sometimes...

Kubby helping their partner Dream with a meltdown. when i'm having meltdowns i need tightness.. Kubby has meltdowns too and Dream is there to help. they help each other.

autistic OCs to daydream about.. we project on them hard - HoneyLily

[dreamdropdollop]

yes we need our tablet and phone or book with us at all times to communication, cause we are under so much stress talking with mouth parts is getting harder and harder. burnout? regression? overstimuated and overwhelmed?

[dreamdropdollop]

too loud | communication card we made | we need to redraw this

[dizzystracted]

I went to go look up a gif or reaction image for overstimulation on Tumblr and I forgot overstimulation is a kink thing and was met with a lot of horny people instead of the ones who also feel like their bones are alive and trying to escape

[dreaminglain]

Hot take, but if someone is doing something that overestimates me in a public place like a restaurant, it should be socially acceptable for me to leave, even if the person can't help it. For instance, if a child/baby is screaming and crying, it should be allowed to tell the waiter I'd like to take my food to go insted, and if they ask why say that I felt overstimuated without being stigmatized or shamed about it. I understand this might make the mother uncomfortable if she hears this or is embarrassed or feels shame, but I should be allowed to put my sensory needs over her social needs. Including at like family functions and stuff. Childern and babies have every right to exist in public spaces, and I don't think its bad for kids to have tantrums every once in a while it's part of growing up. I think its way better for a parent to teach kids that screaming and crying wont get them candy in the store, and ghat they have to learn how to deal with boredom rather than stick a screan in thier face, and im the long run its better for all of us as a society to havs to have screaming kids now than ipad kids later. Likewise babies litteraly can't help it and that's okay. Screaming and crying is thier only means of communicating thier needs and thiers nothing wrong with that. Moms of kids should be allowed to enjoy public spaces just like the rest of us without stigma. But that doesn't mean I should have to subject myself to loud noises and sensory overload just to keep her from feeling bad. I really don't think I'm an asshole for that and I think it's wrong for me to be perceived as that. But idk, I'm open to feedback. What do you guys think?