#pan men

[thetwentiethdisasternightmode]

There aren't enough unapologetic men likers in the masc queer community.

"Unfortunately I am gay."

"The worst thing in the world is to have a crush on a guy."

"being bi is liking all women and one man."

And so on and so forth. Y'all raise your flags so high in the air but can't even say one good thing about men without turning it into a backhanded compliment.

The radfems have rotted y'all's hearts and minds and it's frankly embarrassing.

[adanmeiconfessionblog]

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“If I see the word "comphet" used one mone time to deny a danmei character being bi or pan and to claim that they can only be gay despite openly having shown genuine interest in women, I will flip a table!

Bi and pan men dating and marrying other men are still mlm and can be the main characters in a danmei.”

[plague-memoria]

i need a bisexual man to fall in love with me so i can be genderqueer in peace and he'll still want me

[nonbinarymlm]

Just a reminder that the term mlm or men loving men is inclusive of bi, pan, poly, and any an multi-gender attracted man who's attracted to men. The attraction does not have to be exclusive and it doesn't matter if mlm are attracted to women or not.

Monosexual gay men are not the only men attracted to men. Men who are attracted to men and other genders are constantly erased and deserve to be recognized. Please try not to use 'gay men' and 'mlm' interchangeably.

[xan-the-emo-trans-man]

HOLY SHIT I LOVE MEN

[someguy-mlm]

Reminder to all that mlm doesn’t just mean exclusively gay and nblm doesn’t just mean mlm lite

Some enben are partially women, there are mspec mlm folk out there, and they’re very much welcome in the community if they wish to be part of it!

[colourfulgreyscales]

My reaction to the reactions of Wayne Brady coming out as Pansexual in Categories.

Some reactions belong to one category. Category 1 (the decent ones): "Yay. Live your truth." "Glad he can be himself in this medium." "Yay, more representation" "I knew it, but I am happy for him anyways." Category 2: "Why is he coming out? We don't care who he sleeps with. He doesn't need to broadcast it. He is doing it for attention. He is married so what's the point?" Also some of the Category 1: "Why isn't XYZ coming out?" Category 3: "We always knew." "We always knew he was gay." "He's a coward to admit he is gay." "Has gay become so boring that people don't come out as gay anymore?" "Give him another year, he will be gay." Category 4: 4A" "Is Pansexual another way to say bisexual?" 4B: Nooo, bisexuals are only attracted to men and women and pansexuals include trans and nonbinary people." (Ugh!).

So, my four observations: 1) I am glad this guy is living his truth and I am so happy with the additional representation of bi+ people in general and men attracted to more than one gender in particular. I wished I followed him more. 2) People don't owe you a reason for coming out or not doing so. Some people want to do it to live their truth out loud. Some people do it because they want to be an example for future generations.

3) It's hard for bi and pan men to come out as such. In fact plenty of bi and pan men stay in the closet by pretending to be straight or "coming out as gay" (but continuing to be in the bi closet in the process). 4) Bisexual means "attracted to genders like my own and genders different from my own." It's also an umbrella term where pansexual is included.

[coinzevs]

&  MLM flag for non-exclusively MLM people.

created by me // tumblr coinzevs

A flag for MLM folk who are not exclusively MLM, and can be used by bisexual pansexual etc. men/men aligned people who like men/men aligned people.