Hypocrisy, victim blaming, transmisogyny, and not taking your own damn advice.
Normally I wouldn't make an original post about a situation I wasn't personally involved in, so I won't! Instead, I'm addressing the disgusting and rancid behavior of someone who ALSO wasn't personally involved.
Okay. SO many things to address here. I'm gonna say: Don't you fucking dare comment on this post until you read the whole thing. Because this person clearly lacks reading comprehension, and I wouldn't doubt if their defenders do too.
Alright. Let's get into this bullshit.
"are you really gonna crop out the context of the post? that's what predators do!" Hey so, the criticism was of WHO ceme reblogged from. NOT the content of the reblog. But, to address your actual shitty victim-blaming criticism here, I need to elaborate by showing Britt also said this about the situation:
(To be transparent: This post was cropped to include only the sentences I am addressing. There is more to this post, but it is unnecessary/unrelated to what I'm talking about here.) Hey so. Stop being an ableist piece of shit! I HAVE OCD. This is NOT an example of "what may actually be OCD," quit trying to diagnose strangers on the internet. Also, in my experience and a lot of what I hear from others, OCD is usually expectations and intrusive thoughts we force onto OURSELVES, so "expecting other people to do ALL THIS WORK (clicking on a blog's profile)" is NOT "OCD behavior." You are literally contributing to the "omg I want things in a neat specific way, I'm so OCD!" stereotype, genuinely fuck you for even bringing OCD into this. This is NOT "expecting people to do extensive vetting on a blog before reblogging." This is establishing a pattern of problematic behavior by who they reblog. "Oh wow, you really expect me to click on the profile and scroll through every blog before I interact with them?" No! You don't have to!
You don't even have to scroll to see this shit! And the "I block tmes" would be RIGHT THERE if you so much as hover over their profile picture on computer or do one simple click on it on mobile. As for the rest: We all know "misandrist baeddel" is not only transandrophobic, intersexist, and I could go on with the bigotry expressed in this fucking intro! Plus, this person ALSO clearly expects people to click on their profile when they have this "I block tmes" clearly stating their DNI criteria in the most visible part of their profile.
I'm also going to be completely honest here, this post, the "one they cut the context from," feels kinda bad on its own! "It really fucking frustrates me when people act as if nonbinary people are unable to be described as transfem or transmasc." Now, initially, if we wanna be charitable, one interpretation could be "It's frustrating people don't acknowledge transfem/transmasc people can be on the nonbinary spectrum." HOWEVER, Knowing this comes from an ISFF-supporter? Knowing how ISFF treats nonbinary people and transmasc people? Personally, I interpret this as, "It's really frustrating when people don't let me sort nonbinary people into binary categories of transmasc or transfem nonbinary." The original post had no tags, so there wasn't much of a clarification there. HOWEVER, OP did actually confirm their intentions in the reblogs! (link for context.)
Yeah no this post is just straight up denying NON-BINARY trans people exist and saying "all trans people MUST lean into one binary or the other, there is no inbetween." So this is the post that Britt thinks "is unfair to crop and unfair to expect ceme to vet before reblogging from," by the way. Moving on. (had to combine 2 screenshots 'cause this one got long.)
"Isff is popular, a lot of people follow her!" Yeah. But most of the people who do also reblog pro-incest, transandrophobia, and pedo-apology posts.
"Ceme just reblogs based on vibes!" Personally, if I saw a post saying, "frustrating I can't call nonbinary people transmasc and transfem" I WOULD be a little suspicious if they were trying to sort NONBINARY people towards fucking binaries. And, again, 1 click on their pfp to see "I block tmes, misandrist tma baeddel."
"You know what proship adjacent means in these spaces! You guys are being mean girls!" (way to call the people you're reblogging from "mean girls" when @/strawberrycheesecakehare has "he/they trans man" at the top of his blog. You ARE misgendering them here. As for @/wokerevolverocelot I would not want to make assumptions on if they would consider being called a mean girl misgendering, because he does have he/she/they listed for pronouns, but their pinned post does say they're genderqueer/nonbinary, so I don't know. All I can say is, whether it "counts" as misgendering or not, it's still very shitty behavior.) Anyway back to the original point-- Saying "accusing someone of being proship is a dogwhistle for accusing them of being a predator/pedophile" is honestly a proshipper talking point to make them seem like victims when they get called out. This is the type of shit proshippers say, they whine that they're being "pedojacketed" for.. making posts justifying pedophilia. As far as "did they really accuse Ceme of that," I'm gonna highlight their own fucking words Britt refuses to acknowledge.
(This is literally at the top of the post Britt reblogged from by the way.)
So, yeah. They did not. Britt is making false accusations towards these people, accusing THEM of being the ones making false accusations, all while butting in to a situation they had NOTHING to do with. Nice. Real mature. Now, where were we in the original messy reblog chain Britt started?
"They said they were personally uncomfortable and quietly left," BOTH of the people you are reblogging from have provided screenshots, and Ceme admitted himself, he did NOT "quietly leave." He told someone to have the server fucking NUKED and had a bunch of shit DELETED. Also, since while looking through YOUR blog you had a few posts tagged "gaslighting,"
"they were constantly combing through my blog and monitoring who I reblog from maybe like a week ago." Holy fucking shit. It was NOT a week ago. It was literally HOURS AGO in the screenshot, and the post that showed the hours ago screenshot, was posted 19 hours ago at time of typing this. AT BEST the reblog is a day or two old. NOT "like a week ago." This is truly some "oh my god guys get over it that happened yearsss ago (it happened 1 year ago)" type shit. And, again, this is not a "fullk background check" situation. HOVERING THE MOUSE OVER THEIR PFP SHOWS "I BLOCK TMES: TMA MISANDRIST BAEDDEL." And, side note, NO, they were not trying to doxx crippled-peeper. Ceme shows NO evidence for this claim. Ironic Ceme claims to be a victim of false accusations of "he said, she said," when Ceme is the one making false accusations without proof here, and implimenting this "he said, she said" tactic by sneaking into Britt's ask box to explain why he's a victim and did nothing wrong.
You're off anon, Ceme. You can provide screenshots, and you chose not to. You chose to make these accusations against others to try and clear your name. You chose to deflect blame instead of actually defending yourself. (This was Britt's reaction/response btw. Admitting they were making assumptions about a situation they were not a part of by saying 'this is what i got out of it based on what they posted.')
Okay. Back to the original reblog chain.
And when someone GAVE YOU the context, you doubled down, believing Ceme, not even remotely questioning who was lying or asking Ceme for proof. You already chose who you were going to believe and decided anything contrary must be a lie.
(Again, NOBODY said Ceme was a sexual predator. Britt is putting words in people's mouths and making false "pedojacketing" accusations here. NOBODY ACCUSED CEME OF THIS.)
Britt cannot help but get the last fucking word on this. Eden has shared NOTHING. Eden's public blog is EMPTY of any kind of drama or discourse. DO NOT continue to drag someone else into this who clearly doesn't want to be involved. Again, this is just complete bullshit and victim blaming. Refusing to admit the people you associate with have any fault, by accusing the people calling them out. I'm not gonna take a damn thing Lemuel says seriously considering, again, this is the side of people claiming false accusations while making false accusations, but if you go to Lemuel's page it's literally just downplaying the situation, vagueposting, victim blaming, saying "guys this is playground behavior, it's not the end of the world," which comes across as infantilizing as well.
Also, this was incredibly annoying to read. "I take evidence extremely seriously for accusations:" says the person who engaged in "he said, she said" by blindly believing Ceme's word and recieving/showing NO evidence for the false accusations made against the people calling Ceme out. (Also, edit: the "ohh but I was just innocently asking questions :(" ignores how many purposefully snarky/petty comments they were making that came across incredibly antagonistic/villainizing toward anyone in the thread who disagreed with her.)
But, okay, where does the hypocrisy and transmisogyny come in? In Britt's previous posts.
(Not taking a stance on the content of this post, I have little context for it, I'm only pointing out Britt's hypocrisy.) Take your own advice, Britt. Shut the fuck up about a situation you weren't there for. Stop enabling Ceme's behavior. And stop being a coward by hiding behind "you guys are being too mean!" (literally called people mean girls like 3 months after saying this btw.) Also incredibly ironic the person Britt criticizes here accuses them of "copycat harassment kiddie cops" when the person Britt is now defending accused the people calling them out of.. being "harassment fandom cops."
As for the transmisogyny,
No. I do not count this as "criticizing this one specific person." When the post above says "Stop calling trans women pedophiles for no reason," and you say "this is the reason," you are practically agreeing with the post above. This post does NOT deny calling trans women pedophiles. When the post says, "calling trans women pedophiles," that is women PLURAL. Trans WOMEN. Not "calling A trans WOMAN A pedophile." What this post does is say, "it's okay to call trans women as a group pedophiles because there's proof." I don't care if this was poorly thought out phrasing. If you are going to criticize pedophiles hiding behind the "you're just criticizing trans women" shield, the MOST IMPORTANT FUCKING THING is to emphasize that NO, trans women ≠ pedophiles and we should NOT be spreading that idea. It is incredibly fucking dangerous and disgusting behavior to neglect to address the claim of equating trans women to pedophiles while calling this person out. This is NOT defending @/bunblogging2 as they have obviously said some horrid shit shown in these screenshots. They are disgusting. But you are also disgusting for implicitly agreeing with the post's framing of trans women associating with pedophiles.
I think that's everything. God. This took ages to compile. Because of the people associated here, these are the accounts I will link and recommend adding to the blocklist: britts-galaxy-brain (Britt) cemetery-wolfdog (Ceme) lemuel-apologist (Lemuel) thetepes (All over Ceme and Lemuel's blogs defending Ceme's behavior, and victim-blaming the people calling Ceme out.) i-suggest-transing-your-gender (Defended their behavior after being sent a link to the post you're reading right now.)
panicatthecriscodisco (has directly made a post contributing to the harassment campaign against the grooming victim, and defending the people harassing them.) sentient-noodle (has directly made a post defending the people here and villainizing those who call them out. wokerevolverocelot and strawberrycheesecakehare calling out fucking harassment should NEVER have been compared to the behavior of ISFF and crippled-peeper. Fuck off with that exaggerating bullshit.) This harassment campaign has gotten so out of control. @ me if someone needs to be added to the blocklist for defending and/or contributing to the harassment.
And, I must emphasize, DO NOT HARASS ANYONE, NO MATTER WHAT SIDE OF THIS CONFLICT YOU ARE ON. There are already innocent people barely involved in this situation being dragged into this harassment by Britt and people like them. If this post angers you: DO NOT direct that anger at the people involved. Vent those frustrations in the comments, or fucking block me like an adult. I was not asked by ANYONE to make this post, I simply saw this disgusting behavior and was frustrated by it, and wanted to make a post to call out and vent those frustrations.
