#parougender

[ezgender]

Day #22 of Gendertober: Dressupfluid (by @daydreamgender)!

[Coining post] [Wiki page]

Woo, big 22! Daydreamgender has a lot of good terms, and this is no exception. I think it’s really useful.

[mogai-headcanons]

Charlie Emily from the Five Nights at Freddy’s novels is an autistic nebularomantic asexual lesbian transfeminine demigirl with ADHD and anxiety who uses she/her, ce/cel, vi/vir, and they/them pronouns, and vi’s dating Jessica, a bisexual agenderflux parougender antheic person who is okay with any pronouns, but prefers she/her, ro/ros, or dus/dusk! The two also use 💚/💚s pronouns for Charlie and 💜/💜s pronouns for Jessica as a sign of their relationship!

[parougender]

PAROUGENDER;

Parougender, pronounced as pah-rue-gender, gets its name from the Greek word parousíasi ( presentation ). It is a gender that falls under the Atrinary umbrella beside Maverique.

It is for people who identify as a gender outside of the trinary ( binary male, female and nonbinary ) but their gender presentation shifts from masc to fem to neutral. This gender is not for people who are binary or have a lack of gender ( Agender ), Parougender people feel they have a gender but it is outside the gender trinary.

The two flags are the complex Parougender flag and the simplified flag. Both can be used for edits or bracelet making and anything like that.

Please tag me in any edits you make!

Colour explanation;

red fading into pale yellow - gender presentation shifting from masculine to neutral to feminine

white - a dividing line separating gender presentation from gender

green - a gender outside the trinary ( it is not the lack of gender )

[flowerfallsyndrome]

Could you possibly do a flag for parougender? It’s a gender that is dictated or influenced by how you present. (My gender has no real shape but when I wear “women’s” clothes it’s feminine and when I wear “men’s” clothes it’s more masc) There’s no flag for it but it’s always been an important part of my gender.

Here you go! I hope I did the term Justice!

[bigendering]

Hi, so I was wondering if you knew anything about the label parougender. I think that's what I might be but I can really only find a very basic definition. Anything at all would be awesome. Thanks!

I’m sorry, I’ve asked around and haven’t found anything. For interested peeps, the definition of parougender is “A gender identity that feels related to or defined by a person's presentation” or “Someone whose gender is closely related to the way they present themself”

Going off the definition, parougender would cover a range of experiences, such as:

Not knowing what your gender is but preferring different presentations at different times, and so labelling your gender based on those presentations

Not knowing what your gender is but knowing how you want to present, and labelling your gender based on that presentation

Being able to tell what your gender is, but the main tip-off being your presentation

When you change your presentation, your gender changes in response

I (casually) identify with parougender because of the last two. You can identify as parougender and something else, or parougender alone.

If anyone knows more about parougender or especially if anyone identifies as parougender, please comment/reply! Everything above besides the definitions was just me extrapolating, so if someone knows something concrete that’d be wonderful.

Kai

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

Is there a word for when your gender relies on how you present/the clothes you wear? Like, when you're wearing more feminine clothes you feel more like a woman, or at least woman-alined, but when you wear more masculine clothes you feel more agender?

Parougender! The definition is “A gender identity that feels related to or defined by a person’s presentation.”

Kai

[ask-pride-color-schemes]

Various gender terms with no known flags (part 29)

Parougender: Someone whose gender is closely related to the way they present themself. Can be combined with relevant genders.

Passengender: A gender that goes where it chooses. This gender is always going somewhere on its own drive and it may be affected by your surroundings, but you can't really control where it’s going (you're like a passenger).

Pictogender: A gender that can only be described through imagery. A pictogender individual might only be able to describe their gender with icons, symbols, emojis, color gradients, or some other visual.

Pixiegender: Based off of pixelgender; feeling a small amount of a certain gender and being related to magic.

Pixogender: A very neutral gender specifically relating to identifications with virtual worlds. Coined from the term pixel. Created with tech/machine kin in mind but anyone can use it.

Plugender: “Plu” meaning “more” (as in ‘plural gender’ or 'plus gender’); may be used to describe those who have multiple genders, or who sees their gender as being one multifaceted thing, possibly comprising multiple genders into one. See also: Augender.

Pluripotentgender: A gender that eventually becomes another gender permanently.

[Full list of terms are in the google docs if you don’t want to wait for the next posts]

[Link for A-K] and [Link for L-Z] and [Link for text only]

If any of you know if there’s flags for any of these already, please send a link to it so we can add it to the gallery! And if you know who coined it so we can properly credit them (and that includes if it was anonymously posted or the blog deactivated).

[singeroftalesvoiceofages]

My masculine/androgynous presentation is bout to fight the femme gender brought on by my pink hair in the gas station parking lot tomorrow night, don't miss it. Betting pools already open.