i'm androgynous in a sense that, me, afab has
3 out of 5 times, get asked to leave the woman's only train carriage
(mind, thats my daily commute, i use the train at minimum 10times a week)
entered the men's restroom before with no questions asked (only when i was desperate, ok?)
a couple girls asked for my number and they backed off once they realized im not a man
some girls flirt with me openly as a girl, and i backed off bcs im too demiromantic for that
apparently guys flirt with me too but im too dense for that
a guy has backed off once he realizes im not a guy
(sorry man, i realized you were gay but i didnt realize you were flirting, again, im too dense for that)
a girl friend has multiple times stated if i was a boy she would date me and if it wasnt for religion, she would date me as is
a guy friend has a crisis bcs hes never been attracted to me or men before except for the one day where he admits i look "particularly handsome today"
(to this day, i have no clue if that was in fact his bisexual, gay, some sort of kink awakening, or something else. either way, i do not dare ask)
another straight guy friend told me that i would make a good (insert male character here) cosplay
(i forgot the characters name, and he was a pretty boy archatype. but a boy nonetheless)
a coworker told another coworker to try and hit up that handsome patient (we worked in a hospital) only for the 2nd coworker to point out "thats sael"
a gay friend complained that i've got "the best of both world" and a "dream switch bisexual, who can pull off anything"
(and he would be right, except im both too demiromantic and too scared of commitment to use my "advantage" lol)
im sure theres other stuff but this has been rotting in my drafts for a while so i think i should let go
