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This is a very small gripe but not every man in a dress is a transmisogynistic joke. Sometimes it truly is as simple as a man who enjoys being feminine. “Just make her a woman already” - tried that actually. Failed. Still like dresses though.
it's my fucking birthday! i'm old!
if someone can explain to me how mspec lesbian/gay people using the split attraction model is Bad without being blatantly invalidating of aro/ace ppl i would Love To Hear It /gen /srs /will elaborate
just realized I just bias rappers
EDGE OF SEVENTEEN TAG- made by @alwaysimming & @our-dazed-sims
so here is my two babies in high school!! they were such frickin dweebs, and i couldn’t help myself when the prom option was presented to me. imagine them at prom? frickin wild. some pics of just them are below the cut, but im so glad i was tagged in this by @sycsh !!
i’ll tag anyone who really wants to do it, honestly its so much fun!
Hmm. It got taken down but there was a post about how trans men shouldn’t, as a rule, feel a connection to their younger pre-transition selves / femininity. I don’t have the screen shot and I was kinda distracted but I perceived an uncomfortable “these people are making us look bad” / “aren’t you embarrassed” / “harm yourself if you do this” / “I am going to commit violence if I see any more of this” bend to it.
Frankly that’s not your call to make. You have no control over what another person experiences in their OWN gender journey. That is truly transmed “if you don’t deeply hate yourself you’re not really trans” shit.
Be nice to your transgender siblings, even if you don’t understand their experience. They are not you. Their self identification does not affect you. Thanks.
Me: I need to get off the tags and emotionally regulate myself. I’ll scroll my regular dash for a bit, that’ll make me feel better.
My regular dash:
> “jumping on trans women” when we’re talking about our own experiences and erasure, calling out harmful rhetoric, regardless of who it comes from.
> calling trans men White Women. Just straight up misgendering, okay.
> “white woman tears” - apparently we’re hysterical
> “you don’t deserve to be masc or a man” okay so someone’s gender identity is subject to your shitty opinion? I thought the whole point of being trans was self determination.
> “comparing yourself to trans women” we have no similarities apparently. Nothing in common. Nope, not a damn thing.
> “act like a man and stand up for the women around you” I don’t think women are damsels that need protection, and it’s not my duty to white knight for them at my own expense, especially when they refuse to treat me like a person worthy of basic human decency. I happily stand up for folks in my community that will likewise stand up for me, but it has nothing to do with gender. It’s because we’re equals in community and solidarity.
> “grow up, you’re acting like children” you know transmasc people have a problem with infantilization, right? Right??
I completely agree it’s unwarranted for people to dogpile or go looking for fights, but I don’t think a bunch of people saying, “hey that’s not cool” is harassment. Not saying some people don’t have an explicitly transmisogynistic agenda, but stop generalizing that we’re just emotional weak women I mean shitty childish men whose only gender euphoria comes from being misogynistic. Maybe we’re just trans and want to be respected for the identities we can’t change.
Maybe it’s time to log off…
“Cis people think gender transition is a singular event. They are wrong about this.”
Hell yeah sister
“They think we walk into the clinic, are out cold for twelve hours and walk out with bottom surgery, new breast implants, no body or facial hair, etc etc etc.”
Well that’s certainly one type of transition. Pretty critical lack of transmasc examples though. I wonder what op thinks of trans men
“Transmascs already pass as masculine before they transition and testosterone gives you facial hair in two months.”
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It’s not in and out of the clinic in 12 hours but honestly it sounds to me like she doesn’t even think transmascs NEED to physically transition in any capacity at all to be taken seriously which. Fucking Yikes! Talk to a non passing trans man PLEASE. It took me literally two years to have any facial hair at all on testosterone. It is not the “more powerful” hormone, it doesn’t work overnight. And anyone who thinks a pair of he/him pronouns is all anyone needs to access the mythical Male Privilege is fucking stupid, sorry.
