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Wtf is 'neurospicy' why are u calling me that what

#interesting experience with an irl person #what is a neurospicy i kinda hate it #neurodivergent #ig?#personal maybe #Dunno just dont knw what to even make of it

god forbid i gain two manageable tasks I am going to Walk Into the Sea

#moss posts #aaAAAAA #personal maybe #COLLEGE WHY #biting and scratching derogatory #panicking

Meeting some of the elders (including his dad) of my husband's tribe this weekend and I'm ✨ anxious ✨ i wish i had more indigenous friends to talk about it bc they're excited for our baby and I'm afraid of puking in their presence 💀

#indigenous #personal maybe

so now that i have been drawing ship art for a while, i would just like to say

that in my kinako confession comic i specifically wrote this carefully to try to be aspec friendly

so many times when people express the idea of “i thought i wouldn’t want a romantic relationship”, it tends to be phrased in a way that implies “...but OF COURSE i was wrong because everyone eventually wants a romantic relationship haha”, and seeing this happen over and over again can really be demoralizing and make it difficult to trust one’s own feelings and convictions

so i really wanted to avoid this in my own work. i chose to phrase it this way because it still gets the message across that kinchan came to feel differently than he once had, while recognizing the existence of people who ARE happy on their own. i wanted it to be positive, to describe their happiness rather than their lack of something (that they didn’t want anyway).

it was also my choice not to use specific labels bc i feel it’s easier to understand or relate to a feeling than a label, which may mean different things to different people and which people may or may not prefer to use for themselves. (i realize some people may prefer to see a label, however this is the most natural way for me to represent my own feelings.)

i also rewrote this several times to try to capture what i wanted to say:

i wanted it to be possible to interpret this as being about asexuality without making it exclusively about that, because i think this is relevant in many ways and didn’t want to restrict it to one (also bc i would prefer to avoid committing to labels for the characters, as their feelings--and mine--may be subject to change). but i did very much want it to be possible to interpret that way, because imo it is very relevant to it

tl;dr although i am drawing romance now, i still feel affinity with aspec and do still want to express that when i feel like i have the opportunity

#my art #personal maybe

I’m giggling. The Stereogum guy writes that everyone who met Madonna remembered her, there was just something about her. Hah! No, actually. My mother’s like, “well, she was your uncle’s friend and her father was notoriously overly strict and everyone knew that’s why she rebelled, but she wasn’t a huge rebel really and... that’s about it, really” when asked about her. Madonna was at my parents’ wedding and there are no pictures of her, and no one cared. She was just some teenager there as my uncle’s friend (or something.) She didn’t even do anything interesting, unlike my aunt who spiked the punch. Or my uncle, who crashed a car and had to be bailed out of jail by my very displeased grandfather that night.

Madonna worked to get that charisma. It wasn’t something she was born with. Respect the hustle.

More importantly, my father wore a yellow tux and a huge mustache at that wedding, and that will never stop being hilarious.

#personal maybe

Reviving these glorious, wonderful moments of blushy Ed to say that With these as proof somehow i HC him having sensitive ears. Enjoy teasing him ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Thank you for coming to my ted talk!

Ps: as of 01/31 at this ungodly hour, when i'm tired and should be sleeping, this happened