#perspicuitea

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@perspicuitea replied to your post: man i love executive dysfunction

woo!!!! ain’t it great!!!!!!! !!1!

it's the best!!!! i L O V E spending 2 hours sitting in my chair yellign at myself in my head to actually eat, my food is cold by now, why this isn't hard it's like 10 feet away. A++++++ would spend the night doing it again

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@perspicuitea replied to your photo: @perspicuitea @goron-king-darunia Yeah, I know. ...

I feel you. Took me wayyyyy too long to learn “explaining it does not excuse it” so that I could defend myself better. Hugs ❤️

My problem is even when I *know* it, I still can't *act* on it because I naturally like to avoid conflict (okay, at least offline. Online I'll fight anybody). I just. Don't want to get into it, especially when my mental health is already fragile and a fight won't help...

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@perspicuitea @goron-king-darunia Yeah, I know. It's been hard to accept that's the case because I guarantee she has undiagnosed OCD and possible a general anxiety issue, and she's well-intentioned (in this case it was concern about a possible fire hazard but I had the situation under control... I think the worst-case scenario paranoia stems from anxiety)... But the path to hell is paved with good intentions, so it doesn't negate the emotionally abusive aspect, nor does her almost certain undiagnosed issues... At this point I mostly just ignore it, because she's all talk and I can recognize the behavior for what it is, but it's real frustrating. She wonders why I don't tell her stuff, and this is exactly why. Also, bae, I really want that second option to be the one that happens!

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perspicuitea replied to your post: Bleeeeeeh... Guess its officially time to remove...

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