#piercing tw

[ehlihr]

Kris gets their first piercing

[go-star-sailor]

drawing wirt with earrings and realized her ears had to be pierced somehow

sara watched 1 youtube tutorial it’s ok

[izuris]

When u get my comission can ur wings be stapled tofether ❤️✌️

Thank you for commissioning me!

[mnginlov]

new piercing

telling beomgyu about your new piercing

warnings mention of piercing (no details), pet names, impatient gyu, cursing (gyu says damn once)

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note i finally got a chain for my nostril piercings and felt inspired lol

[flameleadsarc]

More fun stuff about the writer here because this shift is boring:

I have naturally curly/wavy hair that is also fine. So far, the colors I've had it over the years are: black, red, blue, purple, green, and pink. My last one was a mix of purple, orange, and red for a sunset sort of effect, and it was my absolute favorite. We'll see if what I get done tomorrow tops it.

I have nine (9) piercings on my face. In each ear, I have one industrial and two lobe piercings. Both of my nostrils are pierced, and my septum is pierced. I rode the high of my piercer calling me a badass when I got my second industrial done for a while, let me tell you. Yes, I plan on getting more piercings at a later time.

My apartment is full of plushies. I partially blame my sister because she got me into bellzis.

My Roy playlist on spotify is absurdly large. It is a mix of instrumental music that I use for writing and songs that fit different elements of his character. That can be anything from Ishval era, his so-called playboy persona, his hardworking attitude as he works to overthrow the government, and so on. It's why you'll find things like flamenco music along with stuff from several other soundtracks, Hamilton, Taylor Swift, Britney Spears, and so much more. I draw inspiration from a lot of places.

One of my top comfort foods is grilled cheese and tomato soup. It's gotta be a creamy tomato soup, though. Other favorite soups include New England clam chowder, hot and sour, and French onion.

Unlike Roy, I cannot get myself to like coffee. I love the smell, but I do not like the taste. I'm more of a tea person.

[sluttywonwoo]

headcanon for svt reacting to your tongue piercing?

seungcheol: he wouldn’t be able to stop staring at you, and can’t help but wonder what it’d feel like for you to go down on him

jeonghan: he’d be a little eeked out tbh. like he’d be really concerned that you’d still be really sensitive for a while and not want to kiss you for risk of infecting it

joshua: he’d love it bc you’re one step closer to being his big titty goth gf dream

jun: he loves shiny things so he’d be so into it

soonyoung: he’d be really excited to find out what it feels like when you kiss

wonwoo: watching your stick your tongue out would nearly make him jizz his pants bc he imagines you doing the exact same thing, except on your knees for him.

jihoon: he’s the least observant person ever, so you wouldn’t tell him that you got it done and just wait for him to figure it out. he wouldn’t until you’re going down on him and he feels something cold press against his dick— he’d freak out about it at first, but once he realizes what it is he wouldn’t care at all (other than feeling a little silly)

seokmin: it would have to grow on him i think. he’d love it, don’t get me wrong, but it would just take some getting used to

mingyu: he thinks anything you do is hot, and this would not be an exception.

minghao: he’d be sad you went to the piercing place without him because he would’ve wanted to be there and hold your hand— but he loves the jewelry

seungkwan: thinks that it doesn’t change anything for him, but then he feels the bite of the cold metal against his neck while you’re giving him a hickey and almost cums right then and there

vernon: his first question is if it will set off a metal detector in an airport. his second is can you blow him rn so he can see what it feels like…

chan: not so subtly asks if you’d ever consider piercing your nipples too…

[multiplicity-positivity]

(There is more context to this question that may affect perspectives on it, but as they are 18+, and I don't want to cross boundaries by discussing those topics without consent, I'm going to be keeping this as SFW as possible.)

I am hoping you have advice on how to handle consent and autonomy when within a system. One of our headmates, we'll call him O, is interested in doing an activity that he would enjoy, but could cause temporary damage to the body. He is aware of the risk, and is willing to do his part to ensure any harm is minimized and we are fully prepared to handle the aftermath, but some of us have reservations.

He's a frequent fronter who often doesn't get to do much that he enjoys because his preferences are a bit more extreme than the majority of us, but he's expressed frustration lately that he can't have as much freedom as others. I want to give him more autonomy to do what he enjoys, but I'm not sure how to navigate activities that may cause us harm, even if it is something anticipated and understood to be brief.

Personally I would not mind if he did do the activity, as long as there was firm plans in place on how to handle any injury that did occur, but the problem is that with as many headmates as we have, we usually vote on things like this, and while a majority of us are neutral or in the same stance as myself, there's a vocal minority who are extremely against even considering the idea, and one has expressed anger at O for even considering the activity in question. It would be something done with someone that we trust with our life who is practiced in safety during activities like this, and they would be around to help us in the aftermath if we needed assistance in any way, so a large part of us want to tell the ones saying no that they've been outvoted and not to be rude to O for having different desires, but I also don't want to risk upsetting them enough to cause fallout and harm internally.

Sorry if this crossed a line or was too descriptive to be safely posted, I'm struggling a bit to give the necessary context without outright discussing the topics. Feel free to not answer this if you are not comfortable with it (though if it's not rude to ask, I would request an acknowledgement that it was received, just so we know Tumblr didn't eat the ask in the first place.) Thank you in advance.

Hi! This is pretty tricky, but I think we do have some advice on helping headmates have agency while ensuring the safety of the system as a whole.

We feel that compromises are really important when it comes to building trust between headmates. For example, we have a headmate who loves piercings and wants a lot of them! At the same time, many members in our system are afraid of needles or are alterhuman and feel uncomfortable about having holes in the body. We compromised by getting the body’s ears pierced! This way, that particular headmate can wear earrings sometimes and the system only has to worry about one set of piercings.

When it comes to asking O to compromise, here are some things you can ask them (although we don’t know the full context, so some of these may not work!):

- Is there any less dangerous alternative that can still spark joy for you?

- Is this something you’d be willing to do for less time/with less amounts/cut back/etc in order to keep the system safe?

- Is there anything you can do to prepare or practice caution that can help put other headmates’ minds at ease?

And to those with reservations, maybe ask:

- Would it help to write out a list of questions for the person you trust to make sure y’all are as knowledgeable as you can be about this?

- Can you speak to anyone else who has done this to hear multiple perspectives?

- If your system has a gatekeeper or any control over switching, would it be easier if those who were nervous stayed away from the front until it’s over?

If y’all are able to keep an open dialogue, it may help everyone in the system feel more at ease with O’s choices and desires.

Additionally, if O is wanting to do something that is illegal, unhealthy, or could cause serious harm to your system or someone else, perhaps it may be best to bring this up to a therapist or mental health professional. It can be hard to recognize when is the right time to reach out for help, but it’s important to take the necessary measures to make sure your system can stay safe!

We hope this helps somewhat! So sorry if this response is all over the place or isn’t very useful. We tried our best to provide some insight without context! Best of luck to you, O, and the rest of your system as y’all figure this out!

🌸 Margo and 💫 Parker

[downydig]

Got another piercing yesterday because I’m mentally ill