kinda low right now because my boyfriend and i were talking about gender politics and we don't really agree on some stuff which makes me kinda uncomfortable but the thing is he's not straight up saying feminism is bad, its just that he's ignoring the offensiveness of a lot of things and whatever you don't care what the actual argument was about.
point is i don't really want to talk to him right now because i don't know how to explain to him that he's the reason I'm upset and i have no close friends or anyone around me who would care so i have no one to talk to when I'm sad but him, so what do i do when he's the one making me sad? i can't even talk to my mom because I'm worried she'll question my ability to make dating choices and trust me less in the future.
i just want things to be okay and for me to not get offended over this stuff.