#poly thoughts

[cheshirewolf]

having 2 partners to dote on me and use me however they want to :( and to watch them kiss while they do it, not letting me get a taste of either of them just yet.

[blad3bunni3]

You're new moots witnessed a love triangle /j

i hope i get put in a love triangle for real one day...

[jotunheimloke]

I miss them like crazy everyday and not being able to touch them, hold them and fuck them, it's incredibly hard. But I still get to have nights like these with them, and it's hot, and intimate, and I am just so grateful that we both pour our hearts in to tending our fire.

And my gods I love that nasty little freak of mine so much. I hope we're endgame. The forever ship.

[foxpuppyangel]

youd be surprised how much love is out there when you let yourself start to source it from a community instead of just a single person

[switchytransboy]

tbh i’m discovering that one of the hardest hurdles to get up and over when you’re new to polyamory is all of the unlearning of monogamy.

of course there’s the emotional rollercoasters as well as both a LOT of individual work/healing etc. and relationship work/learning/healing etc. to do with your partner.

but whenever i or my partner have urges to engage with someone else or to have my partner as well as someone else gang up on me (or me and another on my partner), the knee jerk emotions & reactions i experience i’m finding are just based in monogamous beliefs. that certain things are instantly cheating when… it’s not if it’s within boundaries. that the intense fears i get sometimes are just… due to change and moving out of a monogamous relationship dynamic which is all we are ever exposed to.

it’s just so wild. being queer, trans & poly are all about just saying “fuck you societal norms and traditions” that we have been taught and that are ingrained in us before we’re even BORN. i always imagine what life and what humanity would be like if these norms and rules never existed in the first place. if it would all just be about love and nothing else.

[constellations-and-energy]

the three Sally’s employees ALL flirted with me at the same time today and honestly I can’t stop Thinking™️

[nikki-smurfling]

I know I'm gonna be using this as a smurfs blog but I need to get this out of my brain before I die inside

Adrinette/LadyChat except they're poly.

Chat thinks he has another girlfriend (Marinette) to introduce to Ladybug, but for some reason, she's too shy and almost happily says she doesn't mind never meeting her (claiming it's a secret identity reason)

And Marinette gets extremely excited to tell Adrien she has another boyfriend (Chat) and that she's positive they'll get along, but he awkwardly admits he's just fine knowing she's happy with both him and the other guy.

Each of them is worried the other will be upset when they find out who the other partners are but in reality, they're just dating each other twice.

Ok, I'm done rambling. I hope it made sense because I kinda just woke up so all of this was written on sleep fumes.

[girls-are-very-pretty]

A groupchat with your girlfriends/datemates and like jokes and nonsense and that one responsible person always reminding everyone to go to sleep, and random wistful “when we move in together” stuff, and teasing making fun of eachother that devolves into “I love you”’s and heart emoji’s