with questions for everyone & for folks currently in a polyamorous relationship! (remember to specify which category when you send an ask)
how did you first learn about polyamory?
what was your journey of realizing you’re polyamorous like?
what has been most surprising to you about polyamory?
would you marry one person? why or why not?
if it was legal, would you want to marry multiple people? why or why not?
what’s your favorite part of being polyamorous?
what would your ideal polyamorous representation in media look like?
what’s your favorite polyamory meme or slogan?
do you have any polyamory pride items? if so, what are they?
are there polyamorous relationship configurations you wouldn’t try? if so, why?
have you come out as polyamorous to anyone? if so, what was that experience like?
have you been to any polyamory meet-ups in person or online? if not, would you want to?
what’s something you wish more people knew about polyamory?
what’s a piece of advice you would give to someone entering their first polyamorous relationship?
folks in a polyamorous relationship
what words do you use to describe your relationship configuration?
separate beds, California King, or something else?
do you have any activities, traditions, or inside jokes as a group?
big spoon, little spoon, middle spoon, or sleeping by yourself?
how do you refer to each person in your relationship configuration to people you aren’t out to?
did you start out as a polyamorous relationship or open/expand a monogamous one?
do y’all share a netflix account or something similar?
how did you meet your partner(s)?
have you ever played wingperson for a partner & metamour who got together?
how do y’all spend the holidays - all together, some people together, or all separately?
what’s a challenge of being in a polyamorous relationship that people don’t expect/acknowledge?
what’s your favorite thing about being in a polyamorous relationship?