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122.- Is cheating ever okay?
No. I find it unforgivable, and it’s disgraceful. If you find your relationship lacking, you need to discuss that with your partner(s). The key to any kind of relationship is communication, and if your partner(s) (monogamous or polyamorous) are with you, then you need to explain where your dissatisfaction is coming from, and perhaps discuss the potential for expanding your borders together.
Don’t cheat. That is cowardly and cruel.
131.- Your bestfriend of the opposite sex likes you. What do you do?
Hahahahahahahahahahahahaha. Fun fact: this already happened. He admitted it to me a little over two years ago. It was really awkward for a while, and I kind of avoided him for a few months. Thankfully, I realised why it was so awkward for me stemmed from also being aromantic as well as asexual, and we had a long chat about it. And while sometimes I still wonder if he likes me like that, but we’re back to our normal bickering and brofriendship flirts that I have always had with him and my other mates. And sometimes I wonder about “What if,” but I’m not sure I’d be comfortable acting on it. He is still, always, the closest non-blood male to me in the world, and after all that madness we made a compromise: assuming he and I are both single when I turn 35 (he’s got a few months on me), we’ll get married for tax purposes. I don’t know if I could ever have navigated that situation in any other way, honestly. I love him dearly, but I’ll never really be in love with him.
