So, for the one person reading this, I want you to look up toxic people related tags. What's the first thing you notice?
That it's all for people dealing with toxic people.
This isn't bad, it's quite the opposite. It's great people can get that information and support.
But where's the help for people who keep trying to stop being toxic but they can't? Where's the support for those trying to get better? Where's the advice on how to stop being the biggest jerk on the block?
Like I just wanna get better and stop hurting everyone but I don't know how. How are toxic people going to get better if there's no resources toward them?
It's not as simple "be nice" or "respect boundaries" because if it was that simple I wouldn't be here. That's like telling a person with ADHD to focus or a person with insomnia to sleep.
Not everyone is toxic because they're gold diggers or sadistic, some of us have a nonexistent filter and quite literally forget the boundaries laid down until after we already broke them.
