So tell me, is this already a thing, and if so, does it count as a gender identity?:
Gender Futurism - the belief that gender has outlived its usefulness, and that as society, people would be better served by abandoning it and instead pursuing their goals and passions without regard to sex or gender.
Gender Futurist - a person who, regardless of their sex, gender identity, or gender expression, finds the concept of gender itself nonsensical, outdated, and often toxic, while still respecting other's identities and able to identify with and participate in movements regarding gender's former role in our collective lives (feminism, trans rights, etc...)
((Just to make this doubly clear, I completely respect the importance of and validation gender offers to many many people and in no way wish to demean or belittle their lives and experiences))
EDIT: Turns out I'm probably definitely some shade of agender but this is still the closest I've gotten to describing how I feel.