Meowdern Intersex Purrspectives

tidings and mewsings of a cat-tboy (a catty boy, if you will) • Vulvar Hypospadias advocate • Exploring intersections of disability justice, intersex, and trans identities, some mewlings of being a system • neutroix hermafagdyke • one/none e/ey hy/hym kit/fae

[intersexcat-tboy]

Call me Whiskers or whatever idrc. This blog focuses on raising awareness, sharing personal experiences, and connecting with others in the intersex and ATM theory community. I love doing in depth research into topics, esp writing intersex educational essays. I am always learning. I tend to be very verbose as I'm hyperlexic, but I'm also dyslexic and dyscalculic so it's a struggle. While I am 21+, my account is not—occasional sex ed + kink discussion posts are tagged, and the latter are limited to interaction from bodily adults.

If you like what I do, or appreciate if I've helped you, you can always tip (link) me

I have read over 50 studies regarding anteriorly deflected urinary streams and vulvar/vestibulovaginal hypospadias. If you or someone you know has any questions, lmk (:

Most everything goes onto queue, tho sometimes some things skip the wait. As I have several communication disorders, it will usually take me several business days (weeks) to respond to posts because I can only manage my phone in short bursts, work full time, and am bedbound when I get home.

I use oneself, none, e/ey, hy/hym and kit/fae pronouns

Schrodigender's catoffboy. Call me a catboy or don't call me a boy at all. [PT: Call me a catboy or don't call me a boy at all, in bold /end PT]. I use it as an omninoun (link). I may occasionally use masc language for myself but I do not identify as a man. [PT: I do not identify as a man, in bold /end PT]. I'm not a man or a woman. Not your bro, not your sis. I am a SW and have done FSSW

I prefer not to be gendered or sexed by others at all, but I permit it sporadically from mutuals. I do not perform gender on the daily. Linaricgender and IntersexErrgender. Antanaver, obscurique, maintric, aliusmasc and ahuman. Neutroix tfemneumasc. TNC and ANC hermaphrodyke, hard femme, transfem guything. (s)t4t sapphillean tranny until I die. Transmisogynized

DNI/beware of cat:

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I write essays for fun.

Death, violent, rape threats / jokes, and suibait will not be tolerated. Neither will any form of bigotry—this means racism, ableism, sanism, classism, fatphobia, and queerphobia (including homophobia, inter+exorsexism, + forms of transphobia [transmisogyny, anti-transmasculinity, transmed / exclusionist beliefs, and transX/transID claims like “transitioning to intersex / Black / harmful / etc”]). I'm critical of TransID rhetoric and support alternative terminology. Individuals who use the belligerent language of bigots—"misandrodork," "theyfab," or "transandrobro"—will be blocked on sight. This is not a space welcoming to rad/LSD/basedqueer ideals or forms of fe/male separatism or superiority—namely MGTOW, masculinists, radfem, febfem, and perisex self-identified bæddels. Following or heavily reblogging from Plaidos (a known transphobe) or Strawberry-Crocodile (a known intersexist) forfeits the presumption of good faith due to the consistent lack of it on their accounts. Support for the Israeli government and its actions conflicts with the Land Back principles and other anti colonial values held in this space

Well what about [XYZ]?

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Individuals with BIID where their dysphoria is centered around the physical body rather than "not being disabled" are perfectly fine and welcomed here. I do not mind those with alters who understand that their body does not hold the responsibilities of enduring oppressions their marginalized alter would face (and thus will not be fully capable of understanding oppression regarding that minority), who do not describe their discomfort as being "transrace", and uplift voices of the minorities rather than speaking over ("I have a black/trans/IS/disabled alter so I get to decide what's bigoted" 👎)

More about me:

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I was UAAB and grew up as a trans girl, but now I'm growing into something else. I'm CTN and sociopolitically TMA, but don't use it as binaries (especially ones based on birth assignment "privilege") do not reflect my intersex experience, nor is oppression based solely on internal identity, but rather influenced by your material conditions and how you are perceived. I was raised a feminist and became a transfeminist before I ever came out. I believe in Transformative Justice and Community Accountability. Antigonist

I've been transitioning for over a decade as someone who is ambigonadal with a partial androgen resistance. I was part of the transgender craze seducing your daughters before Abigail Shrier even started taking notes. I've been called a bæddel since before Tumblr discovered it. I have survived and prevailed through a forced detransition. I've had more than a handful of people consider me a queer elder. I will remove you as a follower if I catch you being an ass in my notifs to someone I've responded to

I'm autistic, part of a small medically adaptive, disassociative, biconscious atrium collective, and am disabled on many levels. I use mobility aids daily and struggle to get anywhere without them due to my numerous musculoskeletal and soft tissue deformities, along with FND. I also have some disfigurements but don't consider myself Disfigured. I also have exfoliative keratolysis. Radinclu

I cannot tell you if you are intersex or not. I don't mind spam likes/reblogs, but be aware that coming back onto here to a bunch of notifs may startle me. I'm really weird abt compliments and tend to get overwhelmed. If we're mutuals and you unfollow, please soft block (blocking then immediately unblocking) me

Some posts:

Examining Sax's .018% claim (link)

No One Can Produce Both Sperm and Eggs? Think Again. (link)

Unpacking the Ethics of “Tboy Strap” (link)

Vulvar Hypospadias (link)

Problems with CAGAB’s Epistemology (link)

Corrective Gender-Based Violence and Coercively Controlled Gender (link)

Some Tags:

#purrspectives for posts I've written or heavily added to. May occasionally contain others' posts if I completely agree w them and have no better way to convey

#transparency for criticism and #testimonials for praise

#actually intersex / #actually autistic

#intersex issues / #transmasc issues / #trans issues

if you don't want to see my direct responses to discussions, mute #unraveling, or #deconstruction for broader unraveling

To avoid discourse in general, mute: #intercommunity discourse and #trans discourse

#queer solidarity / #trans solidarity

#intersex history / #transmasc history / #trans history / #queer history

#ableism / #exorsexism

#intersexism / #trans intersexism for posts regarding intersexism from perisex trans people

#intersex theory / #trans theory

#intersex erasure / #transmasc erasure

#antitransmasculinity / #anti transmasculinity / #transandrophobia / #transandromisia

#disability justice

#system stuff

#trans tag / #trans / #trans positivity

#autistic tag

[rainbowspaceprince]

As a transmasc nonbinary person who is usually read as a very masculine cis woman because I'm not on T yet, I can tell you with full confidence that masculinity is not rewarded in everyone. I have had family members say horrible disgusting things to me and try to force me to be feminine. I've had friends who knew I was transmasc nonbinary try to force me to dress feminine for their sake. Once, I wore a tux for a friend's wedding. None of the cis men in the wedding party had to put on makeup but as the transmasc nonbinary person, not only was makeup demanded for me but it had to be feminine to offset me wearing a tux. I needed to have femininity to their standard. People treat masculinity in trans people as a threat. As a sign of evil. It can never just exist. I have been eating in a restaurant by myself quietly minding my business and had people glaring daggers into my soul because I existed as a masculine person and I knew that if there wasn't a camera they probably would've attacked me. A specific kind of masculinity is acceptable in cis men, but even then, it must be performed properly. The masculinity of trans men and transmasc people is seen as deviant and perverted. It's seen as a threat to the carefully balanced order of cisheteropatriarchy. As someone of lower status trying to reach above their station and attack their betters. It's seen as ruining innocent girls and taking away the wombs needed to incubate more babies. Refusing to accept this doesn't make it any less true; it just shows those of us with these experiences that you'd rather we die tragically as women rather than live as our vibrant trans masculine selves.

[useless-stray]

if you tell trans men to kill themselves and they get upset and your response to that is “you’re a man, you by default perpetuate the conditions that lead to my abuse, you deserve this!!!” then you clearly have no damn idea what the fuck you’re talking about or what it’s like to be a trans man

[yourlocalrattyguy]

"The term "egg" is for trans women because inside an egg is a chick!!!"

Uhm I dunno about you but there was a cock in mine

[transmisandrysucks]

[intersexcat-tboy]

There is so much that could be said about this but I find the "lamb eaten by wolf," "you are the wolf" "be a good dog" very interesting. It's almost like they... aren't the wolf?

[creepycryptidcreates]

Pride snake collection #2 is now available on Etsy!!! Super pleased with these guys :)

[kmftm]

hey party people, I’m here to talk about my experience with transmisandry—

“you can’t call it transmisandry, misandry isn’t real and is an MRA talking point”

ok, my experience with transandrophobia—

“you’re not experiencing oppression for being a man, you’re just experiencing misogyny and transphobia (but you can’t call it transmisogyny, that doesn’t apply to you)”

ok, my experience with isomisogyny—

“you don’t experience misogyny, you’re a man, and you can’t call it your own special brand of misogyny anyways, you don’t have it worse than anyone else”

ok, my experience with anti-transmasculinity—

“transmasculinity is rewarded, as is all expressions of masculinity in this society. You’re transitioning into privilege”

ok, my experience with transandromisia—

“you don’t experience oppression, look at all these stupid words you made up to make yourself feel special you little birthday boy tMRA”

ok, how about we talk about your experience with shutting the fuck up and not taking others talking about their own oppression personally, since clearly you can’t stand hearing about us for even one second.

[bjoirdhnn]

Hi everybody.

It pains me to inform you all that we have found @transfaguette He unfortunately has passed on. Thank you to everybody who aided us, reposted, and had conversations with us to help find him. I wish I had better news to share.

He’s at rest now.

Please take care of yourselves and each other. You are loved, you are cared for, you are so much more important than you could ever realize.

Suicide Hotline [phone]-TALK

Trevor Lifeline 866-488-7386

[hypergonadism-culture-is]

Special shoutout to hyperestrogenic transmascs and hyperandrogenic transfems!! Whether you want to keep your hypergonadal hormonal profile or not, you are so valid as a transfem/transmasc. You are awesome!! Never forget how much you mean to me!!!!

[yourlocalrattyguy]

"Oh my god, you birthday boys need to learn to shut up, transandrophobia isn't real. You're NEVER silenced, you literally face no problems and are privileged. You cannot say you have any oppression-"

You are literally proving our point.

[eggpngg2]

tsphilippines.com, 2007

[sahlofolina]

there's this specific grief that comes with being trans and hearing another trans person has died. because no matter how far away they were, it never feels distant, it feels communal. cellular. like someone reached into the wiring of your own body and cut a thread. trans people learn early on in their journey - often even before they begin transitioning - that survival is treated like a political statement. joy is political. transition is political. getting to exist long enough to become boring is political.

and now mourning is political, too.

i'm so sorry, murry foust. i keep thinking about how tired you must have been. how tired all of us are. how humiliating it is that even when we die alone, people still laugh and debate whether we deserved to live a happy, dignified life at all.

there are trans kids online right now learning your name – and the names of juniper blessing, lucas redbeard knapp, aleanna belcher, and davonta curtis – through grief. through fear. through that horrible, familiar ache of "that could've been me." and i hate that this is part of our inheritance from one another. not just chosen family and resilience and beauty – but memorials. vigils. apology letters to ghosts.

you deserved better. you deserved to grow old and live a happy, fulfilled life. all of us do. i promise we will keep fighting for our community to have a better future and we'll carry our lost siblings the whole way through.

[hollowtowne]

don’t forget your intersex siblings this pride! we’re so often ignored and left out, but we’re still here and still queer 💛💜💛

[the-darla-creechur]

btw this is what the author of whipping girl had to say about transphobia against trans mascs when elaborating

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[leathersys]

on having a "collective consciousness"

[silksong-blog]

Tumblr. Pure effervescent enrichment. Old internet energy. Home of the Reblogs. All the art you never knew you needed. All the fandoms you c

‘Hey followers, go harass this person I don’t like. But don’t worry, they have a similar name to my old blog and is a trans man, so it’s fine to bully them off the site’

God forbid people tag their kink

Teaboot doesn’t even really talk about transandrophobia, he just refuses to ignore his own experiences whenever he gets an ask about it.

[transand]

you know how we all recognize that when conservatives use “protect the kids” rhetoric it actually has nothing to do with protecting kids and is actually just a cover to remove queer people from the public eye while privately abusing any child who shows an inclination towards queerness?

can we please get that same energy about “protect little girls” in reference to trans men being a social contagion spreading ROGD? it’s not about protecting anyone, it’s about the violent and targeted erasure of transmasculinity which makes it easier to abuse little kids who might be transmasculine.