#pragula

[feathersandblue]

pragula

reblogged your post and added:

1.) This isn’t an issue of “age of consent” for a...

Case in point. 

ETA: Ironically, the post that I reblogged right before this one was talking about problems with a segment of population that doesn’t see critical thinking as a value. And as I said before, this is also a problem of the regressive left. 

[lieutenantseivarden-tomove]

pragula replied to your post “Solas hates Morrigan so much”

It's great

I lost it when she started talking about the dread wolf OH MY GOD

[spacebeyonce]

*fire* fandom

a giant cesspool full of ugly racists and yet somehow a place that is still able to offer me some reprieve and joy. a fuckin’ conundrum that I hate because, again, ugly racists and such that love to say that fandom isn’t supposed to be a safe space when I rail against their status quo, but love to quiver and cry when their freedom for sexual expression is being infringed on.

and yet I love fandom because of all the friends I’ve made, and how it’s made me grow for the better as a person. like what the shit how can something be so bad but so great in spots idgi.

[liminalsimian]

pragula replied to your photoset: Save me from lair space hell? last four on this...

I will buy it when I am online later if she’s still there

pragula replied to your photoset: Save me from lair space hell? last four on this...

I dig the first one

Yay! :)

[the-ace-community]

Nah bro. You don't get to pretend that you care about trans people and then refuse to apologize when you fuck up over something that would have taken you 30 seconds on google to figure out. You spoke out of turn and you know it.

idk where you got the idea that i’d refuse to apologize? whatever. im over it. if you want a legitimate apology then i understand that as a cis person i shouldn’t have said anything. im sorry that what i did say came from a place of ignorance. like ive said before. no one’s perfect. clearly im not either.  im not expecting you to forgive me or even accept or acknowledge this apology considering half this website never does. but still, im going to try learning from these mistakes and move forward with my life. does this mean im going to keep my mouth shut when i see people getting harassed? not really. does it mean i’ll allow other people to handle harassment that might be out of my realm of knowledge as a cis person. yeah. 

[oneshortdamnfuse]

You have every right to respond to violence with violence, especially then your abuser is a grown fucking man who ought to be caring for you rather than causing you pain. You aren't required to forgive, and fuck anyone who says that being angry or fighting back makes you just as bad. It's also normal to still feel traumatized by events that happened one or two years ago, or even long before then, especially if you are still required to interact with him.

Yeah, it took me a long while to realize that his responses to stressors were really inappropriate and that there was a serious power imbalance between him and I when we did fight. Thank you for the message. It’s really validating and helpful!

[kurgy]

pragula replied to your post:after a month and a half of fighting guess who...

Good! How did it go down?

zippyzephy replied to your post:after a month and a half of fighting guess who...

Oh thank goodness. What the heck though, who filled them?

after finding out from my doctor that she refused to refill them a month after my initial appointment in which she said she would refill them i was directed to ask my psychiatrist about it and ive basically been nagging him about refills for days and at first he didnt want to do it without an appointment but he couldnt get me in for one until september and at this point im so tired of this bullshit that i refused to accept that as an answer and have literally just been bothering him ever day with my symptoms and withdrawals and about how badly i needed my medication refilled and i think he just gave up and said fine and refilled them all 

[cowthropologist]

pragula replied to your post “yes hello 911 my brain is trying to kill me”

I'm going to beat your brain up.

@pragula i’ll hold him, and you punch