#predatory mention

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I know it’s because of internalized transmisogyny and I know it’s bullshit but I can’t shake the feeling that sexual advances/flirting from me is seen as creepy/predatory because of the whole predatory trans woman thing (esp @ wmn). I know it’s wrong and I can rationalize it away but like in the moment my brain goes ‘are you being that creepy guy?’, and that fucks me up