#princessunipeg

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Bob’s Burgers really said “stealing is wrong unless it’s from rich people that can afford the small loss” the past 2 seasons.

...As they should kinda

...Rich people kinda systemically steal from everyone else on a daily basis if you think about it so it's tit for tat, heck, not even that

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Does Helluva Boss and Hazbin Hotel take place in the same universe? If so then Charlie might have a few things to say about the IMP business and the fact that the boss is sleeping with Octavia’s married father.

Yes, they do take place in the same universe. No, I don't think Charlie is going to comment on the fact that a member of the royalty in her father's court is having an affair. I don't think Charlie is in any sort of position to find out that a prince is having an affair in the first place, much less with who, if we're assuming that they're going to be keeping it at least a LITTLE more secret than they do on Instagram.

There's been no indication of any plans of a crossover between Hazbin and Helluva—the suggestion so far is that they're going to be kept separate. Probably at most there's going to be background cameos, like the way you can see Blitzo during Charlie's song in the pilot but he doesn't interact with her.

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How many seasons of Hilda would you want to see and would you be open to have an official motion picture based on it? I really like this cartoon. You gotta applaud them for including a Muslim in the background even though it takes place in mid-20th century European country.

I'll take as many seasons/episodes/movies as they're willing to give me! I had a blast with s1.

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How do you know when you are aroace? Or just ace? Or aromantic?

I mean... I guess it happens differently for everyone? Figuring out which one(s) you are if you are any, I mean. I can wager it typically takes longer than some other orientations to figure oneself out as part of the asexual and/or aromantic spectrum because society doesn't really make it clear that sexual and romantic orientations are two different things. I know that in my case I figured out I was asexual, figured that made me aromantic automatically (didn't know there was a separate word) and called it a day, until I realized there are several romantic orientations within the asexual spectrum, which makes perfect sense in hindsight, but that I hadn't thought about because it's like... THAT little separated in common talk. Wouldn't be surprised if in general it's harder to figure out if you're aromantic than if you're asexual, considering this — but who knows. That was my situation, but it's such a unique experience that I imagine there's endless paths to knowing. And ultimately the only thing I can come back to is "If you know, you know, and no one knows you better than yourself." This is why I don't wanna be like "if you feel X, Y or Z, then you're definitely asexual, or if you feel X, Y or Z, then you're definitely aromantic". It's such a personal thing.

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How did you pick your partner? How did you know your partner was the one?

I didn't exactly "pick" – they offered me a queerplatonic relationship and that felt nice and safe enough for someone like me, and we vibed well, so here we are!

That said, as the flavor of aroace that I am, I can't really have a favorite person, so they're not "the one" as in... I can't have a "the one". But they're doing me the honor of being OK with that too, and that's honestly plenty. I don't expect to be their "the one" either. As long as we're vibing together, that's nice enough, I think^^

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What conditions did you have to fulfill to make your green card marriage legitimate?

Sorry for the late reply!! I just wanna make one thing clear to begin with: I'm not really the most comfortable with the term "green card marriage". I know it's not exactly ALL that means, and I might even myself have used it hastily in tags before, but it sort of implies that the green card is the end goal to the marriage, and that isn't really the case. What I wanted was to be able to live with my queerplatonic partner on a permanent basis. And yeah, a green card makes that possible, but yeah, I wouldn't have just gotten marriage to anyone for any reason just to get a green card. Anyway... Hope that clarifies things.

That aside... It's very costly and there's a lot of things from our private lives that we had to show as proof, from bills to plane tickets to photos with family and friends to screenshots of private chats. We had to ask permission for me to enter to the US to get married, too, through a pretty stressful interview process I had to go through back in France.

Once I had permission, where we got married didn't matter, but the timing did. I had about 5 months to move to the US, and 3 months to get married after entering. So yeah, those were the main constraints. And then document everything with paperwork and private photos because the government is still gonna ask for that as proof after the wedding is done, and they'll keep asking for proof over a period of 2 years, simply put. It's a whole thing. But it was worth it.

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As an aroace how are you sure you like like someone and not have it confused with simple admiration?

...Honestly, as an aroace who never feels romantic attraction, I... CAN'T "like like" someone, if you mean that romantically, which I guess you do, as most people do?

So in my case that'd be how I'm sure for myself 🙈

As for other people, I can't for sure tell whether what they feel is admiration or simple romantic attraction. I'm very confused as to what romantic attraction entails. But people sure do seem to love coming to the conclusion that a positive feeling towards someone means romantic attraction a lot of the time.

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I didn’t know you played the harp. How did you get a harp?

I grew up in a celtic region in the country where I was born! So believe it or not, celtic harps were much more accessible than in most places, lol

It seems I got fascinated by them as a kid and that wound up being the instrument I wanted to play. Celtic harps are a bit limited with what you can do with them, and in hindsight my adult self questions that choice a little, but the attachment is undeniably there. Learned how to play those since I was 7 after all. I'm so rusty these days it's ridiculous, but still.