please why are men so fucking stupid

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please why are men so fucking stupid
amazing how when presented with the "knowledge"/"news" that the world is, was, and forever will 8e ruled 8y cruel evil people, and that all exceptional people are just lustful greedy exploiters leveraging their talent against commoners, the average person's reaction is to give up and start dooming or post a8out le revolution instead of fucking. 8ecoming the ruler. and winning.
new philosophy called evil optimism (not evil autism) where you know the world is evil 8ut that's GOOD, actually, and you actually go out and fucking win and ascend to the perceived st8 of godhood granted 8y money and talent and you fucking DO THINGS WITH YOUR LIFE. winning is good 8eing a winner is good having everything fucking rocks
“My opponents are the people who gave up our borders.” - Nigel Farage
Here is an interesting question. "When is an immigrant not an immigrant?"
No, it’s not a trick question and neither is it the beginning of joke.
Certainly for Reform UK, immigration and immigrants are anything BUT a joke. In June 2024 Nigel Farage promised to reduce "net migration to zero".
By May 2025, he had gone either further:
"Nigel Farage demands a complete 'halt' to immigration as it 'devalues Britain'. (Express: 09/05/25)
The people of Britain, declared Farage, have "nothing in common" with the majority of immigrants entering the UK.
Just 47 days ago Nigel Farage declared that under a Reform UK government immigration to Britain would be stopped because immigration to the UK had:
"...devalued the quality of life for everybody, damaged us culturally, broken up our communities, broken up our sense of patriotism and belief." (Quoted in The Express: 09/05/25)
The message from Reform UK is very clear and unambiguous: NO IMMIGRATION.
Which brings us back to the question, "When is an immigrant not an immigrant?"
The answer is when they are a non-dom.
Farage has just announced he wants to encourage non-doms to Britain and has proposed reinstating the UK’s non-dom tax status — but with a twist. Under Reform UK’s plan, wealthy newcomers or returning high-net-worth individuals would pay a £250,000 one-off fee in exchange for a “Britannia Card” that grants:
A remittance-style regime shielding offshore income from UK tax and a 20-year inheritance tax exemption on global assets
It seems that foreign born millionaire and billionaire immigrants are not included in Farage's bid to "halt" all immigration. If you are one of the super rich (like so many of Reforms top officials) then you are not an immigrant at all - : you are a non-dom
Although there are no official figures for non-doms in the UK, a 2022 study by Warwick University found "well over 90%" were born overseas. I don’t know what dictionary Farage and Reform UK are using, but in my world someone born overseas who has set up home in the UK is an immigrant.
I may be an old cynic, but in my experience the super rich have very little in common with the majority of the British population, whether foreign born or native Britains. The average Britain has very little in common culturally with the superrich no matter what their nationality. And previous experience suggests that rich foreign nationals immigrating to Britain do indeed break up communities, just as Farage claims.
When the Russian oligarchs moved to London in the early 2000's through to the 2010's house prices rocketed as these rich individuals poured billions into the property market. As a result even rich native Britain’s were priced out of the top end property market.
Not only does Farage and his rich backers want to repeat this experience but they are going to give these super-rich immigrants tax exemptions not enjoyed by the rest of us. If that doesn’t cause an “us” and "them” rift, then I don’t know what will. Why should an immigrant billionaire be exempt from inheritance tax when the rest of us are not? Why should immigrant billionaires be exempt form paying tax to the British government from their overseas earnings?
Rather than "halt" immigration, Farage is selling British citizenship to rich foreign nationals. For the very low, one-off fee of £250,000 any immigrant can come to Britain and escape paying many of the taxes ordinary Britain’s have to pay.
The "Britannia Card" as Farage calls it, buys privilege and UK citizenship for rich immigrants: a “golden ticket for foreign billionaires.” The Institute for Fiscal Studies warned the scheme could cost the UK more in lost tax revenue than it raises, and Labour accused Farage of creating a “billionaire’s charter” that undermines tax fairness.
We had the "cash for honours" scandal under Tony Blaire, we had the scandal of "Tory cronyism" under Boris Johnson, and now we have the threat of "the golden ticket for foreign billionaires" scandal under Farage.
So "When is an immigrant not an immigrant?"
Answer: When they are a foreign born billionaire prepared to pay a Reform UK government a quarter of a million pounds.
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Privileges and disadvantages: recognising them in your characters and using them
Privilege is something thrown around a lot these days, and mostly, for good reason.
We all have it.
If it’s not the colour of your skin, what’s in between your pants, your sexual orientation, your wealth or your health, it’s one of the other hundreds of things I could list.
I am extremely privileged, I’m white, my first language is English, I can talk and read, I have a roof over my head and many others things.
But I’m also at a disadvantage in a lot of other areas, my hearing and sight are both pretty bad, I constantly struggle with metal health, I’m fortunate enough to have a job but it isn’t well paying enough to remove the stress of money, my health is in constant ruins and, well, many other things.
The same goes for every character we make.
I read a lot of books where the author focuses in on the disadvantages a character faces, and it makes sense, that’s often more a cause of conflict, but they rarely take but a second to acknowledge that which they do have. A family that loves them? A stable job? Good health?
I always find it weird when people say something then do another. Reflect your values in your work, in your art, if you believe in the philosophy where we should take a step back and be aware of our place inside society, do so in your art too.
This also goes the other way, feel free to take a priviledged character and show the disadvantages they face. It’s a pretty common trope to show the rich kids with absent parents. That’s a disadvantage, it’s usually shown as though related to the privilege but I don’t think it’s necessary for them to be related.
Why do people always choose absent family for the rich kid as their disadvantage? There are so many good ones out there! Health problems, both physical and mental, discrimination of any sort with the added bonus of it always being lessened due to their financial status, disfuncional relationships because nobody is completely free of the risk of an abusive dick, being incapable of passing at school despite the expensive tutors, having an ill pet...
If you like that trope there’s nothing inherently wrong with it of course, I just yearn for some more variety.
So, how can we incorporate privilege and disadvantages into our stories? As so often happens, I’m going to go over a quick example from my own book because it’s easy.
Itazu is the main character in my series Dear Dragon.
Relevant Privileges: Her father is both loving and wealthy having a good job, because of this there is no true expectation from her, she’s pretty free to do as she wishes. She’s a dragon and thereby more physically durable than humans.
Relevant Disadvantages: She’s a dragon, one of the last of her species with all the social issues that entails. (I’m simplifying so as to avoid spoilers for second and third books, sorry).
The relevant disadvantages obviously move the plot forward at many points. But that doesn’t mean her privileges are ignored. In fact, they are bought up often, sometimes more obviously than others. It’s bought up through reminders like: “Your Father won’t let that happens.” “Henry will take care of it.” “You’ll always have a place to go”. And from her father himself: “You can count on me for anything.”
This is a treatment many other characters in the book (specifically the male lead), don’t get. And it is something that sticks out.
My intention when showing this is several:
1.- Make sure the audience understands that all the accomplishments in the books are not the protagonist’s alone. She has a support system and that does a lot for her.
2.- Show that it’s not all or nothing. You can are both in a situation of privilege and disadvantage. A good character reflects reality.
3.- Split the audience. And this is the most complicated to understand. Mostly because the goal isn’t truly to split the audience, but to understand that a good character, a realistic character, will not be liked by everybody. We all know somebody who was absolutely charming and did nothing wrong! Except for some weird reason you can’t explain, you hated them. No character is 100% likeable to everybody (except for some atla ones but I mean there had to be some kind of dark magic in the creation of that show, too perfect), and I don’t want anybody to hate my character’s because they’re boring. I want them to be hated because there is something about them you don’t like.
I’ve got a whole post coming out shortly about this last point that goes way more into detail so stay tuned!
From what I’ve tested Itazu can sometimes be disliked because, “She complains about her disadvantages while having more privilege than other characters”. A perfectly valid critique. If not one I personally believe in. I and many readers find Itazu’s willingness to acknowledge both her disadvantages and her privileges not letting either one get in the way of the other is a perfectly enjoyable character trait.
Itazu is bullied at one point for who she is, and she doesn’t treat this any less seriously because she gets to go home to a loving father.
She receives plenty of love from her father, even though he isn’t a dragon and can’t fully understand her. And she at no point sees her father as less loving due to this lack of comprehension.
Use both.
And I seriously hope I got the point across because I do now know how ot express these thoughts why now.
Please, I’m begging you if you made it this far, did any of that make sense to you? Please tell me.
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Hey, it’s Christmas Eve on Friday, I hope all the students out there are holding in! Remember, not long left! I hope all of you have amazing holidays, and some extra time to read!
Also, I did a post but my ebook is currently on sale in the US and UK! It’s about dragons. YA Fantasy. Anyway, that’s all! Sorry for rambling, love you all!
Women are supposed to be very calm generally: but women feel just as men feel; they need exercise for their faculties, and a field for their efforts, as much as their brothers do; they suffer from too rigid a restraint, too absolute a stagnation, precisely as men would suffer; and it is narrow-minded in their more privileged fellow-creatures to say that they ought to confine themselves to making puddings and knitting stockings, to playing on the piano and embroidering bags.
Jane Eyre, Charlotte Bronte
As someone who is aroace and will always be perceived as a women, something that annoys me is when i said that i don't want a relashionship because i want to focus on myself and travel the world it's not enought but when a men say the same thing they don't need to explain why?? Smh