ANON MESSAGE:
(please keep me anonymous) some bigots are starting shit around your blog again :(
@dietofworm @mutationgirl
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You can both just say it to my face next time. Kind of pathetic to theorize about some tgirl you don't like, while not including her at all. If you're going to be a pussy, why even open your mouth?
Anyways, yea the term is inentionally vague.. in WHO CAN USE IT. It's very specifically about transfeminized people, but there's also a million labels somebody could use, & I don't want to bind my word for an EXPERIENCE BASED THING by labels, because it's not based on labels. That's idiotic.
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Anyways, mutationgirl, very stupid to bring up transmisogyny here. How is it "muddying the language around transmisogyny" if it quite literally is doing the opposite? You assholes are the ones ruining every discussion about it by changing what it means.
Look on the tag rn (if tumblr lets you), tell me how many of those posts are genuinely about intersectionality of misogyny & transphobia targeted towards transfeminized people? I'll wait.
So, how the fuck is making MY OWN WORD to start MY OWN DISCUSSION set up in a DIFFERENT WAY with the express purpose of perserving what transmisogyny means in conversation around oppression *I* face, "muddying the word"? Please, elaborate. Explain just how that is.
To add more language for a group of people to better identify different phenomenons & better facilitate discussions without having to use words where they don't apply?
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Anyways, by your second reply it's hard to believe you actually do any transfeminism if you think transmisogyny just means "anything that affects the transfeminized". ADDITIONALLY, even if I was "including TMEs", I'm expressly not talking about transmisogyny. You're the one forcing that word into this conversation, so what's the issue? No wonder neither of you said it to my face, both of you lack logic at all. It's just pathetic words thrown together so you can hype each other up & attack other trans people to make yourselve's feel less miserable. Genuinely, I pity you.
. Anyways, this is all to say! These type of people are the very reason I started this blog.
A lot of tfems are so obsessed with their own doomer rhetoric & misery they are actually incapable of having any healthy community spaces, & anytime one is created it's beaten down. It leads lonely & miserable tfems to only find community in toxic & misery filled groups, keeping the pitiable mass of self hatred & misplaced anger alive.
This blog isn't attacked because they have a true reason to hate it. (they'd actually speak to me off anon & directly if that were true..) It's because it's true community for tfems without needing to create a toxic echochamber & utilize an us v them. It doesn't feed into the shitty cycle, & for a multitude of reasons, people already trapped in these spaces will attack health to keep their toxicity.
So, if you can, when you see a tfem spitting out vile hatred towards other trans people, pity the poor sap. Truthfully it's somebody so trapped in their trans-misery they are incapable of being around other people anymore. It's a desprate cry for help, & it's a shameful plague on our community.
Anyways, I speak about this a lot on main so I fear I am running myself in circles! Not much to say other than this is a shameless display of misplaced anger, & nothing more than a mentally unwell child's temper tantrum. Peace be, random people in these screenshots. May you one day experience trans joy, & atone for the harm you willfully cause others. Until then, lmao.
