i decide who i ship with.
“at the end of the day, i am the one who decides who i want to ship with.”
this sentence may sound rough, but that’s not the way it’s intended. it is meant as a reminder to those who struggle, who feel guilted into a ship that may be hard to leave / hard to raise opinions about, who have lost the spark in a ship, who may find it hard to separate ways with a ship they no longer feel.
at the end of the day, you as the author and presenter of your character, is the one fully in charge whether or not you should stay or pursue a ship. if it doesn’t feel right, you are allowed to step back and say no. if you longer feel a ship, you are allowed to break it off.
communication is key, as always.
but it must be said that you are allowed to do as you please, as you see fit, as you feel. no one gets to stand in your way of that, and if they do, they may not be a compatiable ship partner.