#psychologyscienceandart

[lesbophobia-receipts]

This is mod Jen. I'm leaving the blog because social justice is toxic and assholes care more about their ideology than people trying to survive and the mentally ill. This is my main. If you're not an asshole, you can follow

[toxxicognaths]

You're cute!!! I know guys don't usually like being described that way, but it's true

B))) I’m totally cool w/ being called cute dw. “handsome” is my favorite since it’s what my mom always used for me but also thank you very much!!

[lesbeet]

Bi ppl rock. Anon can bite my lesbian ass

<3

[bifaq]

Just wanna say, one of your mod's is a mutual of mine and she's really cool. Bi/lesbian solidarity is the best and she always reminds me of that

^///^

You lovely.

[prophetparadox]

Fun fact, asexual lesbians exist because lesbians are exclusively attracted romantically and/or sexually to women. You're not a lesbian so you don't define our sexuality. That's lesbophobia. Sorry :/ I'll prioritize lesbian aces over cishet aces anyday

Guess what? I have a lesbian friend and an asexual friend who helped me provide the words for that response! Neither of them think the term asexual lesbian is valid. There is homoromantic asexual, or aromantic lesbian. I was asking the anon which they were because it makes a big difference!

Also fuck you for calling aces “cishet”. That’s really acephobic. Get out of my ask box.

[closetedtransgirlopinions]

Is it okay for a cis person to follow this blog? I just want to follow more blogs so I can learn about trans issues and be a better ally, but I can see how me following this blog might be invasive and make you uncomfortable. Just wanted to check first. Have a lovely day! I think it's really cool that you're doing this (I saw your promo on closetedlesbianopinions). Happy thanksgiving if you celebrate!

alright im just gonna answer ONE of these. 

i cant say i really care if you follow the blog for whatever reason, i just think you shouldn’t exactly reblog the posts (i dont know why you would??) especially if you’re going to make fun of a bunch of terrified children figuring out why they feel weird all the time.

but like, exception to the rule, i saw some person telling a story about a trans girl she knew in the tags of one of the posts and thats fine even though she was cis. i dont think it needs to be super policed. so in short, follow away. but dont be a jerk

[allopropaganda]

I'm so sorry for asexuals who have been hurt by this discourse. I've had several asexuals who have come to apologize to me to the behavior of their community and have told me how ashamed they feel. I just want to send in some positivity. Bad discourse is not your fault. The actions of others is not your responsibility. Do not be ashamed of your sexuality because of some assholes. You are all lovely. Thank you for supporting us and remember to love yourselves. Solidarity is very important. *hugs!

This is a really lovely ask, thank you for sending it in. 

-Spades

[lesfem-phasma]

yo, I have a whole blog about how shitty the cotton ceiling theory is and I fucking hate political lesbians, so could you stop spreading bullshit lies?

Thanks for telling everyone I’m straight though.

did you miss the part where I said “from what I remember”? cause that’s kinda important.

I don’t just slam my hands on the keyboard and hit submit. I choose my words carefully. every word I write is there for a reason, and I’d appreciate it if ya’ll didn’t gloss over them in order to twist what I said. (for example, where did I say you’re straight? political lesbophobes aren’t all straight)

but I seriously have a lot of doubt that you’re actually truly against the cotton ceiling though, seeing as how it’s pro-lesbians-fucking-males and you too are pro-lesbians-fucking-males. you may be against certain aspects of it, maybe the language it uses, but you cannot truly be against it when you make terf lists and shame lesbians for being attracted to males. you simply can’t be both.