#queer bisexual

[alan-1714]

Headcanon fhs: transformations

[threebeerqueer]

ITS SO NICE OUT. 😻😻😻

[lovein-abundance]

I didnt abandon monogamy to have more sex

A lot of you may not know or care but I am currently in a committed relationship that became nonmonogamous last year. I was going through a breaking point with an old job and coming to terms with being bisexual. Three years into my relationship I came to my partner about how I felt and I was fortunate because the feeling the same way. Initially my intention was just to date women/femmes and not men because I didn't want to rock the boat. That lasted maybe a few weeks before I went back to them to update them that I felt differently and would now be dating openly in general. My inspiration for that was I found out I wasn't attracted to just men/women in the way bisexuality had been presented to me by movies, tv, etc. I found myself attracted to a variety of folks regardless of gender identity/expression. Exploring those feelings felt great, having that epiphany was liberating, deciding that my relationships were for me and no one else was amazing. The down side was convincing people their understanding of bisexuality is misplaced and biphobic is exhausting. I am not pansexual, the label that vibrates the strongest for me is queer bisexual. I am specifically attracted to people because of their gender representation, not regardless of it as often associated with pansexuality. My sexuality is not a pendulum swinging between two genders. I am not trying to have my cake and eat it too. I am a person who sees people living their authentic self and I think to myself I want to be a part of that