Do you think any of the Bridgertons/spouses actually fell in love at first sight?
dearest anon, i love this ask!!
for this, we must revisit each one's first meeting. let's dive in!!
simon and daphne
nope. although maybe we are encouraged to believe so by the whole world-slowing-down-heartbeat-sound-effect thing, in this moment it's clear daphne is not paying attention to literally anything else besides getting the fuck away from berbrooke. her eyes are wild, she's panicking, she would have spoken to anyone to get away from the situation. even after the initial 'sorry' 'pardon me' they kinda start to walk away from each other, but she looks back to find the berbrooke walking towards her so begins a conversation ('tell me your name'). simon on the other hand is dismissive, convinced she's just another lady trying to get his attention. conclusion: not love at first sight, but a love that grew <3
2. kate and anthony
see this one's complicated. i'd like to say yes for anthony, kate i think is just enjoying her victory and showing off her riding skills, but anthony seeks her out again so they ride together a little and start a conversation. but then what exactly is the definition of love bc he does still court and completely seriously plans on marrying her sister for the whole season. so maybe he doesn't realise it's love? maybe he's just fascinated by her and can't understand why? not sure, feel free to discuss in the comments..
3. polin
[INSERT PICTURE OF ADORABLE BABY POLIN MEETING WE NEVER GOT TO WITNESS]
yea no probably not lmao they were babies, but i think since their meeting colin's always had a soft spot for her because he knew he could trust her, she teased him ('mercilessly, in fact'), she was truly herself. her humorous, witty, insightful self, and that's our first peek at whistledown in the making, folks ;) but also, how beautiful that the first peek of each other they got is such an honest one? its funny in the show penelope is often seen as shy, quiet, reserved, but in truth it's just she's not allowed to be herself, she hides that part away for the only people she knows won't judge her (colin at the corners of balls, eloise). its adorable to think that baby penelope wasn't constrained by all that yet, that she was just a kid who teased and laughed and chatted :)
4. benedict and sophie
uhh.. yeah idk. he's enchanted by her for sure, by her enthusiasm for something that's his day-to-day, if i were to pick a look of 'true love', benedict's first glance of sophie comes the closes. perhaps this is love at first sight for him, but also we come to learn the lady in silver isn't.. real? that there's a person behind that mask, a person with a life, with a story, and i'm of the opinion you can't really fall in love with a person until you know them. its been a joke i've seen that ben is in a love triangle with the same lady, and in his confession he does say 'the reality of you is more tantilising than any fantasy' in similar words, so is he in love with the lady in silver if he falls more in love with sophie? dude yea i feel so unqualified to answer this lmao..
in conclusion, i guess i don't think anyone fell fell in love with anyone at first sight, but perhaps their first meetings inspired later feelings (or feelings they didn't yet understand) :)
thanks for the ask, anon!!











