Am I a bad person for not being very happy about my boyfriend going to a job interview today? He is currently over halfway his PhD, but since last winter he has been thinking about quitting. I can understand why he wants to quit: the university where he is doing the research is a complete shithole, he has lost interest in the topic, his promotor is the most unavailable person in the world, and gradually he has realised that research isn't his thing at all. On the other hand, it has taken me such a long and hard route to obtain a PhD-position, that I cannot even begin to understand why anyone would give up, especially being over half way! I would rather jump off a cliff than ever giving up now that I came this far... So this job interview is bothering me. And it's bothering me that it is bothering me....