Hey! Why dont you like uloopi? Arjun and uloopi are the best arjun ship. I mean she isn't proud like draupadhi or has consent issue as subhadra or has little to no mention as in arjun x chitrangada . Besides , they are perfect parallel . he is the son of heaven king and she is the daughter of kingdom of patal lok . I didn't not mean to offend you just a question.
I don’t like Arjun/Uloopi because, in every single edition of the Mahabharata I have read, be it KMG, BORI, or what little of the Southern Edition I know (I will FOREVER be salty that Southern Edition was not translated by the BORI people, because it is held equal to the Northern recension texts by scholars, and more detailed besides), there is consent issue. Not from Uloopi’s side, but from Arjun’s. She coerces him into sleeping with her by threatening to kill herself, he doesn’t do it of his own accord. I’ll ask you, doesn’t his consent (non-threatened consent) matter too?
As for Arjun/Draupadi, they love each other. She isn’t too proud, may I ask why you think that? She’s canonically known to say that without Arjun, everything loses its savour. She says that in Vana Parva, that without Savyasachi, the lotus-eyed one, which is Arjun, even serene forests lose their beauty. People say such things only if they miss people they love. She goes to Gandhamadana, physically taxing herself to the verge of fainting, to meet him. I’m sure that speaks of love. On his side, Vyasa calls her ‘the love of his life’.
I don’t have any issues with Arjun/Chitrangada because it’s a match made with mutual consent, Arjun asks for permission from Chitrangada’s father too. There is mention of the fact that he stays there for three years with her, of their son, the fact that he leaves her behind because of her father’s condition, and also that he visits her afterwards, after he’s saved a bunch of Apsaras who were turned into crocodiles.
With Arjun/Subhadra, I’ll ask you a simple question. If a random stranger is kidnapping you, would you not raise a hue and cry? Subhadra doesn’t, she’s actually smiling when she leaves with Arjun in the Northern editions, and as for the Southern Edition, they have an elaborate love story. Arjun enters Dwarka during his exile doing penance, Balarama asks Subhadra to serve him, she susses out he’s Arjun, both of them are attracted to each other and the abduction is basically not much of one. (I couldn’t translate the shlokas completely, thank you @ambitiousandcunning for helping me with this so much!) So the consent issue is kind of moot here.
This is why I have an issue with Arjun/Uloopi. (And some aspects of Bheem/Hidimbi as well)
I also think that since Draupadi and Subhadra are canonically depicted as happy with Arjun, really, even Subhadra is noted to love him and be happy as his wife, (she’s noted to have been ‘delighted to be united with Arjun’), if that’s not proof, I honestly don’t know what is. Therefore, there is no question of either of them ‘deserving’ better.
This is a stance I will not budge from, please understand that. I am not offended, but I’m clearing my point of view.