Character x male/masc reader from a woman author?
Hey so , I like writing fanfiction and now that I'm in a better place mentally and I can actually engage with the fandoms I love.... I wanna start writing again.
But I want my readers to feel represented.
Every time I see a set of guidelines for fanfiction requests (outside of the Grishaverse) for the most part if the author is a woman she'll always put "no male x character" ,and I always feel bad when I see that because what if a guy reader really likes that author or that fandom? The fandom doesn't even have to have a predominantly fem audience, it just seems to be the default.
Which is why I want to ask
AND ONLY GAY MEN ANSWER
Do y'all care if a woman writes male reader inserts , or do you only feel comfortable with it being other guys?
I'm being completely genuine, I'm not looking for someone to give me the greenlight to write what I want and yada yada like no, most of my inspiration comes from wanting to give representation. But that intention is null and void if it makes people uncomfortable.
And before people ask no , I'm not straight I'm a queer woman.
Omniromantic and somewhere on the asexuality spectrum to be specific, but to save myself the hassle of having to give a thesis on my identity in public I'll just say bisexual.
But regardless I'm still a cis woman. And yeah...the fetishization that happens with gay couples gives them more than enough of a reason for them to be uncomfortable with cis women writing for them.
But idk because I always feel bad when I'm reading an xreader fic that's supposed to be "gender neutral" but it's still someone with long wavy hair , or dainty hands , or they start talking about curves (which men have just in a different way). Or even if the fic isn't explicitly gender neutral and it's just a fic/head cannon and everything's going along fine and then it it's like "you lipstick" or "your dress" and I'm like , welp target audience noted.
And DUH men can have those descriptors but I also know gay guys personally who are like "nah I'm gay as hell but I'm a GUY. " They want to read about fixing each other's ties and characters who are described with stubble , or beards or muscles(and yes I know muscles aren't gender specific that's a different rant tho).
Also if it wasn't clear I'm not talking about writing smut , writing smut in general is too tedious for me. I just mean ships in general.
Idk I'm kind of rambling but , do y'all care? Do you want more representation? Or do you want it but only from someone within the community?
Pls help












