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[poisonemilia]

I have so much respect for ESL speakers 💖

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[oregano-gremlin]

god i hope this isn't real

[fuzzyallover]

[system-of-a-feather]

On the side of Reddit being a cesspool just read "Wow what an animated trauma holder" as a sarcastic fake claim

Like...

*looks at XIV*

They can and will do that sometimes.

Besides as a part who is directly responsible for the non-animated, scared, vulnerable, "uwu" trauma holders as we call them, yeah a lot of them are not really the most animated parts cause they tend to have a lot of shit overwhelming them and just overall not doing so hot - but that kind of a mind set is super not-healing.

For example, Lin was and still sometimes is a very very quiet overwhelmed isolated part but over the like two years I've been working with him in particular he's gotten a lot better enough that when one of His Songs (which is rare to come on since he doesn't listen to American music much) came on in a store and he was so boisterously hyped and surprised that our fiance was like ".... I dont know you, literally" (light hearted, playful and all) cause Lin never spoke anytime he was around then (selectively mute) and was all of the sudden just bouncing off the walls

And that was a huge huge huge sign of healing for them so to kinda sit there and throw passive aggressive sarcastic fake claiming suggestions over a trauma holder being "animated" is one of the dumbest takes I've seen

I encourage all the trauma holder parts I'm responsible for keeping an eye over to be wild and crazy and animated to whatever extent they are comfortable with, want to be, and are ready to be.

Then thats entirely forgetting the OTHER half of trauma holding parts that XIV deals with solely because they are high on full fight-flight energy that I can not deal with sustainably XD Those guys are lively to a fuckin fault half the time (love yall but you all know you need to chill)

[lilacandladybugs]

Me, innocently doing parkour on a block game server:

The twelve year olds in the chat: IF YOU VOTE FOR TRUMP THATS NOT VERY BASED OF YOU gO BACK TO REDDIT HOMOPHOBIA DRAMA POLITICS

Me, who cant make a three block jump: (._.)

[liddlediddy]

not to out myself as someone who uses reddit (not the mainstream/toxic shit literally just like pokemon & sonic stuff) but the difference between the mobile app for that website and this one is actually hilarious. on reddit I can fully close the app and come back days later to find something I googled ages ago on a whim. like not even what had been open when I last looked at the app, like something from weeks ago that I had already closed and moved on from will just pop back up randomly.

but on this beloved app I can just switch to answer a text or snapchat or even check the damn weather and I'm back at the top of my dashboard. hell I can just click a tag by accident or go to someone's blog or the notes & I'm back at the top <3 yay tumblr you work so well!

[system-of-a-feather]

Okay since it's a few days over and honestly we've declawed the dysregulation from it; someone posted our vent about the whole top surgery shit out of context to r/fatlogic and cause we are not immune to trauma responses and OCD, we went to read the comments

And one of them was

And I honestly am both flattered and rolling my eyes at this comment cause

I am so honored at the idea of someone genuinely thinking I am specifically a birdwatching blog cause I LOVE all the blogs on birblr to death, but I also don't engage in it as much as I ghost it, so I would be HONORED to be considered a genuine birblr blog

If someone genuinely followed me and thought I was a bird watching blog that THEN started pretending to have a dissociative disorder, that really is a testament to my recovery cause it means that I didn't post anything alter / DID related for a long enough period that it appeared to be something new

But also, they're probably just lying for pat on the back points and to add reasons as to why I'm "so cringe" and "stupid" by saying that I "started pretending to have a dissociative disorder" when literally thats the whole damn premise of this blog and I find it hard to believe - even on piss on the poor tumblr - that anyone could look at this blog that has ZERO hiding about being a DID blog and think that this was a >birdwatching< blog first and foremost.

It's also genuinely the first time I had a genuine fake claim.

Ray didn't let me post about it earlier (fair and correct) cause we know how those reddits work and what not and knew itd be hard to parse the comedy / "smh" aspect of this comment without being emotionally invested into the action of mocking someone who was in active crisis.

Got permission now cause its honestly irrelevant cause we did our research and we already got our approval from a second opinion (who looked at us and thought the previous surgeon was ridiculous). And so we are good to put this person's silliness out for those that have followed for a while.

But anyways, feel free to comment and clown on this guy if you like - or ignore cause honestly, they seem to be having some struggles of their own and if they lied about unfollowing then maybe that's a tad mean.

I just wanted to share this cause I don't think I'll forget the moment someone - allegedly - thought this blog was a birdwatching blog before a DID blog. It is absolutely going in my "Most Ridiculous Tumblr Moments" file in my brain along side when I got an ask about "if Chinese people could get DID"

[starry-genome]