#relationship reality

[4x4girl]

Curled up in bed...he looks at you and says, “you’re my favorite person”.

#relationship realities

[millijana]

I guess I’m ending something, which was already over more than a year ago. Guess I finally realized I’m more worth than he made me feel in the last 13 Months.

[dechnsign]

When You Meet Your Girlfriend's Father

Valentines week ki ek aur post ke saath I am back. Socho agar tumhara ek ladki ke saath lamba relationship chal raha hai as a couple. Aur ladki serious hokar apne gharwaalon ko bata bhi deti hain.

To do baatein hongi. Yaa to wo mana kar denge. Yaa wo tumse milne ki haa kar denge.

Jab tum ladki ke baap se miloge to fir do baatein hongi. Yaa to wo maan jaayenge agar sab theek raha. Yaa to mana kar denge.

Religion, caste ke alawa paisa ek bahot bada factor hai in the process of groom selection. Sorry, paisa hi sabse bada factor hain. Ke ladka karta kya hain? How affluent is the family? Agar pariwar ke paas zyada paisa naa bhi ho aur ladke ki acchi sarkari naukri ho ya koi foreign mai job ho to tab bhi theek hain.

Nahi to bahot mushkil hai aaj ke zamaane to convince the parents of the girl.

Ab kai log bolenge ke sab paisa nahi dekhte, qualities bhi dekhte hain.

Hota hain. Par humne jinke qualities ke kisse sune hain: Unke package 20+ LPA jaise thee. Family mai ek ya use zyada cars thi. IIT/IIM/ISB ki degreeian thi. Ladke ke pita ke paas accha balance tha. Ghar apna tha aur multistorey tha.

Tabhi to qualities ki taraf dhyaan gaya.

Isliye agar stability nahi to bezzati se bachiye. Agar koi ladki aapko haan na bole. Bol bhi de aur kuch samay baad aapko uske gharwaale haesiyat ka taana maare. Aur aapko naa bolke kisi aur se shaadi karwaade. To comparison ke maare aapke mann mai dukh aur bezzati ke saath nafrat aur low self-esteem bhi ghar bana leti hain.

Credit: Wajood Movie Scene - Nana Patekar | Madhuri Dixit | Mukul Dev - Action Dhamaka (YouTube)

[ferylcheryl]

[soulmates-twinflames]

How the Media Warps Relationship Reality -

The media has done so much to warp how we view relationships. Magazine articles, soap operas and reality television have really screwed up reality in love.

[windylizmt]

Tumblr relationship images: cuddling in the morning, sexy kitchen scenes, romantic bedroom lighting with perfectly decorated beds and the scent of lavender in the air

Real relationship images: fighting over the first cup of coffee at 5am, cleaning the kitchen after a weeknight dinner mess, messy bed with clothes hanging out of a drawer, a cat on your pillow, dog in your spot and the faint scent of Icey hot because work kicked the shit out of both of you.

[traces-of-reality]

We’re often given advice from folks who don’t understand us at all, so why should their advice be right for us? 

Before you take any advice, you need to evaluate where it’s coming from, and if your advisers truly know what they are talking about and if they can separate themselves from what they’re telling you to do.  Everyone likes to dole out pearls of wisdom, but more often than not, the advice isn’t coming from a place of knowing, but a place of “guessing.”  Guessing is not the same as qualified advice.   

[my-relationship-reality]

Left him a note for when he gets home.