The Essence of Women in Islam
Inferior and unequal – for non Muslims, these are the first words that come to mind when thinking about women in Islam. These stereotypes have stemmed from the facts that Muslim Women need to cover up while there is no such obligation for men and men can marry more than four wives while a woman can only be devoted and obedient to one. However these statements cannot compare to the real Islam practices. Most fail to recognize how Islam has empowered women with the most rights and entitled them to be equal to men, both made and born by Allah the Almighty as pure beings.
At a time where misogyny was widespread and women were treated with contempt, Islam honored the women by elevating their stature and protecting them with exceptional rights. Before she becomes a wife, she already had the rights of being a daughter and the rights of being a sister. If she becomes a wife, then she obtains the right of a wife then if she bears a child, she has obtained the most- the right of being a mother. The most clearest example of Islam honoring women is the great status of a Mother in a Muslim Family.
A man came to the Prophet Muhammad, Peace be upon him, and said, ‘O Messenger of God! Who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship?’. Prophet Muhammad had replied- ‘Your mother.’ The man said, ‘Then who?’ The Prophet said again: ‘Then your mother.’ The man further asked, ‘Then who?’ The Prophet said: ‘Then your mother.’ The man asked again, ‘Then who?’ The Prophet said: ‘Then your father.’
The Prophet highlighted the unprecedented importance of the mother before the father by repeating the mother three times. Islam has also implied that caring for your mother is also a way to serve God by for Heaven lies under the feet of a Mother. Also, Allah has devoted an entire chapter of the Quran, the holy book of Islam, to women. God’s messenger, Prophet Muhammad, has also changed the ancient’s mindset towards women as he spread the way of Islam. Islam gave women the right to education, the right to choose whom to marry and the right to retain their identity after marriage- it is not obligatory for women to take after their husband’s family name. Islam abolished women slavery and raised the status of a woman in the society to one of dignity, respect and privilege.
Before Islam, the women cannot receive anything out of goodwill. They cannot vote, they cannot participate and they cannot inherit. But Islam has changed all this. Women are encouraged to actively participate in improving, serving and leading the society to a better community. Not only this, while many areas around the world has discriminated and denied women inheritance, Islam assured women this right by illustrating the universal justice of Islamic Law.
Regarding Men’s unfair treatment to women, this cannot be stereotyped to Muslim homes. Infact, domestic violence is a sin in our Religion. Islam has blatantly frowned up on any form of abuse and oppression. All of God’s creation is dignified and protected under Islamic Law.
In an environment that constantly considers physical appearance as the main beauty of a person, Muslim women are often ostracized as a property of a man because they cover up for their husbands. This is a misconception in itself. Their modest appearance which includes the hijab highlights the woman’s virtues. It promotes her personality and character as an individual instead of her physical figure which in turn, depicts a deeper appreciation for who she is a person.