#respect1d

[havingatoughtime-blog]

I dont see why these people are bashing niall. He shall not be on the list of people getting hates.

You know why?

Because he’s not self-centered. He cares for other people. He’s a decent nice guy. He loves food. He’s the most adorable, most wonderful and least selfish person i know. Even though there are hates given to him by those people, he still cares and look for others.

He doesn’t deserve this hate. He. Does. Not.

[gildadelamora]

Infinity.

So, yesterday Liam announced that the next single for the boys was going to be infinity. I will admit when I read that I was like meh. However, I know that song means a lot to the boys and it’s not a bad song. It wasn't my favorite track until I saw them perform it live and seeing how much the boys got into the song made start liking it  ALOT more. Now, I know everyone is entitled to their own opinion and I’m completely ok with that however, some of you in this fandom feel so fucking entitled and its really fucking annoying. If you don't like the song that’s fine but there is NO NEED to make a hashtag with #noinfiity. Like are you fucking serious? That’s so fucking rude. You all should be excited that the boys are giving us another single. Maybe even another video! These boys are doing SO much to make us happy and to leave as much as they can before they go on a break but no, you all feel like you can run their careers. 

I understand that we are a MASSIVE part of the guys but that doesn't give us the right to be disrespectful lil asses. Not only that but to see that you all lashed out at Liam when all he did was announce the single was just SO rude. I don't understand why you all have such hate or annoyance of Liam. This fandom gets on my ever fucking nerves and I hate it. I hate that I love this band SO much but I can't stand 90% of you. I’ve never had to deal with something like this. 

To the few of you that are fans and I talk to a lot THANK YOU so much for being awesome! For the others...grow up and learn to respect.

Have a happy Friday.

[fourtheloveofonedirection-blog]

Space please!

Everyone has celebrities that they absolutely love and dream about meeting. But what angers me is when I see people all over the place, trapping the celebrity. They aren’t some kind of caged animal for you to scream at. Though I’ve never participated in any mobbing or ‘meeting-my-favourite-person-ever-by-crowding-around-them’, I’ve seen enough videos online to break my heart. A good example was when Harry needed to get into his car. All Harry wanted to do was get into his car. His God damned car. But everyone else around the entrance of the hotel decided that it was best he got squished, tugged and pulled from all directions. The poor guy couldn’t even get past 3 metres wearing his beanie properly. To the girls that were screaming and shouting, imagine you were being shouted at right in the ear. Imagine if you couldn’t get into your car because people were too selfish to let you. Imagine being surrounded by tens and hundreds of people who wanted to grab anything you were holding because you were famous. Liam needs to spend time with his family. Niall doesn’t like being surrounded. Louis can survive a day without you peeking into his personal life. And to those reporters at LAX or any other place in the world that surround 1D, place yourself in their shoes. Would you like that? Or what if one day your child is being mobbed and all they can see is flashing lights everywhere. Do you know what it’s like to have a hundred different bright lights shining in your face all at once? The main problem isn’t even those annoying lights of yours, heck, it’s the fact that you guys are so unprofessional as to surround them just for a picture. Have you searched the word claustrophobia? Or do you guys carry around oxygen tanks? Because the last time I checked, nobody wants to breathe in the Co2 you’re releasing right next to their face. NOT EVEN YOU. I only have one hope. I hope you wake up and realise how wrong you’ve been and stop doing these unethical things to kind hearted people.

Sincerely, A fan who would actually think about the safety and privacy of my idols.

[niallstearmakeseverythingbetter]

I know as a directioner or as a fan in general we want to get to know the boys because well they are our love and our life support ! They bring joy to our lives with their beautiful personalities and music ! We want to know everything that goes on with them because they are genuinely great human beings ! However we must also think about their private lives, which are meant to be private. We all have those and we wouldn't want people invading it. Sometimes we push them too much and I'm afraid they won't stand it anymore and put a definite end to it. Love & support them ! ALWAYS but also be mindful of breaking personal boundaries.

[niallstearmakeseverythingbetter]

I just want to put it out there that the boys are to be respected and loved for what they do! They deserve the best ! Not to be used for you (@media) ! Why don't you focus on the charity events that they put on ! Like #action1D or Louis' upcoming Cinderella Ball he's having ! They are more than people you can use for your article and/ or gossip show !

[headingtowardsonedirection]

can interviewers stop asking the boys about what they look for in a girl. can they actually focus on their music it’s quite obvious that they were uncomfortable during most of the interview.

[mikeyisapayneinmyarse]

Just posting my opinion here but I just feel like we need to step back and love the boys for being our boys. I mean if Larry is real great, if not it's okay too, if Louis is going to be a father he'll be one hot af daddy and if not guess what? We won't love him any less then we did. Because if you really love the boys their sexualities and their situations won't mean anything to you and you'd continue to support them regardless of what happens. I don't know about you, but that's the promise I made almost 5 years ago. I will always love these boys regardless, sure our hearts are broken beyond repair but I think it's important to know when to stop and respect our boys and their private lives and love them for themselves and their music and how hot they look :) they deserve the best in the world and I feel like a percentage of this fandom is not giving them that. So I'm just gonna sit here and continue to love my boys regardless what happens and go on as I normally would and when they feel like discussing everything they have my support either way 💜

[pixiepunklovesdapperdork]

Respect1D

Not gonna reblog candids of the guys (unless it's from a concert) and definitely not going to reblog nudes/"nudes" of the guys.

Seriously? That's like a gross invasion of privacy. Instead of spreading these like wildfire, we should be appalled that they're doing this to the guys (and to any celebrity/human being, tbh) and refuse to promote these; whether they're real or not. 

Fandoms like imagines - well, imagine that this shit happened to you. Probably not so quick on the reblog/retweet/re-whatever, now, huh? 

Also, all you Twitter folk that stalk the guys with hundreds of requests for a follow...dude, annoying af.

As a fandom we need to tone down the Misery-like fanaticism.