Namjoon / FS connection
Disclaimer: just for fun and tarot practice. Don't take anything too seriously.
I decided to do a reading for Namjoon and his future spouse / soulmate/ twin flame. Basically his end game romantic partner. (specifically for this life time.)
This reading was pretty easy and relaxed (thank god.) I actually pulled Namjoon's oracle card last night, but didn't end up doing the reading until the next day. But as I was preparing for the reading I had some interesting things happen:
1. I have this luxury brand watch that I was given as a gift. I don't usually wear it except for special occasions, but when I was preparing for the reading it caught my eye and I got the urge to put it on.
2. When I was getting my personal crystal I like to have with me for all of my readings, my pyrite crystal caught my eye. Pyrite is also known as "fools gold" and good for manifesting abundance.
SO I gathered from that already that this couple is going to be the "luxury" couple for sure. I feel like FS might have a very expensive vibe and we know Namjoon is making $$$$ from all his royalties in song writing and producing. So yeah, they definitely have an elegant rich vibe together.
Idk why that is important at all, even after doing the reading, but it's something that was picked up on, so I shared it.
Decks I used: Tarot de la Nuit, Ascended Masters Oracle, Fairy Tarot, Moonology Oracle, The Good Tarot, Indigo Angels oracle, and romance angels oracle.
(top cards are Namjoon and bottom cards are F/S)
***for this part specifically FS has middle and bottom row***
Namjoon Current Energy:
3 of swords (rev), 6 of wands (rev), Page of wands, 3 of pentacles
His love life is rather lack luster and not where he wishes it was. I mean, this doesn't really come as a surprise. He's a busy man, clearly, so I don't think he has a lot of time for relationships in that sense. But in all honesty he doesn't seem like he's hung up on anything in particular.
He's holding back his emotions and feeling unloved/ overlooked/ a failure in relationships, but probably just because he can't focus on it. The two cards after signify he is excited about possibilities and doing a lot of flirting, especially with people he is collaborating with.
I get the sense he has nothing going on, and he's so busy, that he's started kind of day-dreaming about collaborating with someone and flirting with them and that's how a romance starts, even if it's just a little flirting. His ideal way of meeting someone is probably in the midst of working with them. That's at least what he's thinking right now.
FS Current Energy:
7 of cups (rev), 10 of cups (rev), The Empress (rev), 7 of swords, 5 of pentacles (rev), 4 of pentacles (rev), 7 of wands (rev), 5 of swords
OKAY. so obviously FS has a lot more to dish. The short answer seems to be that they have been cheated on in multiple relationships, or have gotten cheated on by the same person multiple times. It doesn't help that FS seems to be kind of similar to Namjoon, so they already have some jealousy issues, but now they have also been cheated on a bunch of times.
It even seems like they've made a specific effort to overcome this issue before, healed from it, and released the issue just for it to happen to them once again. Their sense of love is warped because of this. They are always looking for signs of deceit, expect lots of fights and tension, and always expect chaos in relationships. They are basically giving up on love or ever feeling stable. Trust issues is a huge thing in their life.
So on one hand we can commend them for being loyal themselves, but on the other hand it seems to be their toxic trait as well. Like if someone cheats on you one time, you forgive them, and they cheat on you again and again that's when it becomes a you issue. Same thing if you keep getting into relationships with people that cheat on you again and again. That's when it becomes time to stop and look at what you're doing to create the situation again and again.
Whether it be because of their own self-esteem that they keep getting with people who cheat on them, or just not vetting the dating pool well enough is unclear, but I think we'll learn more as we progress through the reading.
What Moves Them Forward?
Namjoon: Follow Your Heart
So basically, he has the right idea of it. He simply needs to keep working, keep doing what he's doing, and keep collaborating with people because that will be the thing that brings him closer to finding his person.
Sometimes in connections like this one person progresses faster than the other, and I think that might be what is happening here (as well as divine timing because Namjoon is busy AF) since FS seems to have a lot more to work through than Namjoon does.
FS: Work Your Magic, Let It go, Detach from Drama
Basically, this person needs to get out of the relationship(s) that they have been in and work on themselves. Work Your Magic specifically talks about what you will or will not accept and this person needs to step back and really think about that. If you want a King, don't accept less than a King. If you want loyalty, don't accept someone who is not loyal because you aren't going to change them.
Letting go of that, and all that that person put FS through is the only way for them to find their true King in Kim Namjoon. They might actually even be in love with the dramatics of the cheating person/people they have been with even if it makes them jealous/feel horrible. It's like some people think pain and hurt and chaos are a part of what love is supposed to be like when in reality that is not love at all. That's a toxic relationship.
Anyway, shedding all of that useful stuff and putting themselves first and focusing on what they want will bring them to the next part of their journey and closer to finding The One.
After that:
Namjoon: Queen of Autumn (pentacles), 9 of Spring (wands) (rev), Prince of Winter (swords), The Chariot
He still has his own worries about relationships, but for the most part that is not going to stop him. He is ready to look for a queen and he isn't going to let his insecurities stop him from finding her. He wants to take action and will take action when he thinks he sees someone who exhibits the qualities much like the Queen of Autumn does.
He has talked about dating in school before and breaking up with his old girlfriend because she had too many men around her lol. I think there is a part of him that still has jealousy issues and is afraid of being in a one-sided relationship, but these are long healed for him. They are things he is willing to accept about himself and that he will consider when looking for a future partner. He needs someone who will make him feel stable and excited at the same time.
FS: 5 of Winter (swords), King of Spring (wands), The Star, 4 of Autumn (pentacles), Ace of Winter
So after taking a step back they will still have the 5 of swords (winter) energy, but they are looking at it in a new way. Suddenly they realized that they have been romanticizing fights, tension, and conflict in relationship. It's not what they want at all, and it's not what they deserve.
They instead have decided they want/deserve someone like the King of Spring (wands). He needs leadership qualities, and charisma, and optimism, and cannot have an issue taking control. Hmm, wonder who that sounds like??? lol.
They will start to heal themselves to find their optimism in love once again. The jealousy and clinginess may still be there, but they are now asserting boundaries and figuring out what those need to be to maintain those character traits at a healthy level, much more than they were before. They will get a major sense of clarity.
It will be a huge breakthrough and they will see now the importance of facing their problems and honest communication. Those things will be very, very important to any future relationships they might have.
Moving Into Union:
Namjoon: Full Moon in Aquarius and Super Moon
As they move closer to meeting, it's important he remains true to himself. He should also be there for his friends. There is also a Big Opportunity that he definitely should've pass up on. Namjoon may very well have manifested into existence that he is going to meet his person through collaborating with someone for BTS. I'm not kidding. It seems very possible with these cards.
FS: New Moon in Scorpio and Balsamic Moon
Move on from trust issues and let that sexy energy out is what FS needs to do. Namjoon loves a sexy person lol. They are about to turn a whole new corner in life and need to work on their belief. The more they believe a good thing is coming, the faster it will come.
First Meeting:
Namjoon: You Are Loved
Does the picture of this card almost look like Namjoon holding a flower behind his back? Anyway, he seems to be thinking about how much he already likes the person when he meets them. Perhaps even a rush of "love at first sight" but it might also just be someone he's really excited about meeting. If they really do meet through work then this would make sense all the more. Aside from any of that, I think he sees them as someone worthy of love and worth good things in general and that is something he likes. Definitely going to flirt.
FS: Divine Timing
This card just loves coming out for someone at this point of the reading. This time its an FS who feels it, though. They will feel like they just finished healing themselves and then BOOM Namjoon. Perfect hunk of Leader that resembles that King of Spring from earlier. The magic of the encounter will definitely make them notice him and keep their eyes on him.
Together: You Are Safe
Both of them feel very safe when meeting. They might be able to communicate really easily and even share something personal with each other in their first conversation. The location is a comfortable location for both parties. The meeting in itself is a healing opportunity for both people.
When They Come Together (Union):
Namjoon: Messenger of Water, Messenger of Air
This person will make Namjoon in love with love. There is tons of romance and attraction. Perhaps he even feels like they are fulfilling wants/needs he thought were in realistic. It might also be that he puts them on a pedestal a little bit at first, but he sees them and loves them for who they are as well.
They will intellectually stimulate him. I think it's obvious Namjoon won't want to be with someone he can't have intellectual conversations with. They will make him do things in a quick manner, maybe even want to move the relationship fast. But I think because of the Messenger of Earth in the middle he won't act on it. It's more so that he likes them so much that he wants to, but knows better.
I think it's also important to note that both his cards are this decks version of Knights... therefore I feel like its safe to say they make Namjoon feel like a gallant warrior. He isn't afraid to fight for them.
FS: Moon (rev), 10 of Air, Ace of Earth
So... lol All three came out at the same time. You know how this person spent all that time healing their trust issues? Turns out they still have them! I think the first two cards probably happen early in the relationship and then eventually we get to Ace of Earth.
Think of it like relationship PTSD. They have only known the kind of relationships they had where they have gotten cheated on. They are extremely paranoid about this relationship. Definitely have that "this is too good to be true" feeling. They may feel so paranoid that they convince themselves Namjoon definitely cheated on them and break up with him in a panic. I actually think it's quite possible they go on a date or two and this person dumps Namjoon out of fear of all this making them so happy just for him to cheat on them. Obviously, that isn't going to happen.
That might also be why Namjoon has all that knight energy. He literally has to fight to convince this person that he is their knight in shining armor. It seems like he will do just that as well.
The ace of earth is steady love, abundance, and prosperity in love. They are quite literally a privileged couple. (Luxury for sure) Once this person trusts Namjoon they will see he is the perfect partner for them.
Together: Messenger of Earth
Now they can both put their fierce loyalty to use by directing it at each other. They will be extremely secure and stable. This is the unbreakable relationship of all relationships. Their foundation will be unshakeable. This also talks about being deeply absorbed in work, so they may very well collaborate together in some way.
It's another knight. I think they will always fight for each other and be each other's champions.
Views from the Outside:
Idk why this is always the funniest part to me.
Some people will see this relationship like the Queen of Cups: It's caring and supportive and full of love. There is so much compassion, warmth and kindness that people see between FS and Namjoon. They really love the two of them together. Definitely happy for them, but there may also be the sense that they depend on each other a little too much lol.
Some people will see the relationship like the 9 of Earth (rev): Superficial AF. They spend way too much money. They will also be worried about the two giving up too much of their independence. Namjoon and FS may be so fiercely protective of their relationship that these people think something is wrong with them. Again, themes of them depending on each other way too much. There is a possibility of people even thinking it's a publicity stunt? I just get that from the opinion that the relationship is "superficial and lots of money is spent" so that's possibly why people see that.
Some will see the relationship like The Magician: They literally created each other (they were made for each other). The relationship was an opportunity and both parties took it. They are very skilled in these people's eyes as well. This couple is magic.
Some people will see the relationship like the Hierophant: Convetional, unsurprising. Traditional, but full of knowledge and shared beliefs. Their love will be spiritual and there is no doubt in these people's minds that Namjoon and FS will be married some day. It's almost like these people will be like "I CALLED IT" when the relationship comes about.
The Truth of Their Love:
Chemistry, Free Yourself, Honeymoon, This Could Be The One, Deception, Release Your Ex
Alright, most of these came out of the deck at the same time. In my personal opinion, I see the bottom row as very early relationship and the top as the more long-term view.
This Could Be The One obviously talks about maybe knowing the person already? But this might also just be upon meeting that they will both get this kind of feeling. Like they see each other and just sort of know deep down. It's also important to note the little angels above the couples head in the picture. I think it's definitely an orchestrated event from the spiritual world for them to come together.
Deception and Release Your Ex seem to obviously go hand in hand. If they meet and get together and then separate for a second while FS freaks out then that's how I would see this pertaining to them. The FS will probably feel like they are being deceived because they are so used to being deceived in which case they are going to have to further release the hurt they received from their Ex in the past.
But the two have Chemistry like crazy. It's even evident to other people apparently from the above section. They look good together. They feel good together. The connection is magnetic.
Free Yourself seems to be sign that they will be able to open up to each other after the initial hiccups of the relationship. They will be able to be the truest versions of themselves with each other. Namjoon will help FS heal their insecurities and FS will help Namjoon with his. Their trust will be soooo powerful in making them more Free and loving people.
Finally they have Honeymoon. They are the couple that travels together for sure. They seem to be always going on a Honeymoon of sorts. I don't think this is surprising in the least. Namjoon loves to travel, so he will be with someone else who loves to travel. Lots and lots of romantic trips in their future.
Yay Namjoon! Yay FS! Yay healing and vacations galore!!!
