I've been depressed as fuck the last few weeks because girl hormones + loneliness apparently = self hatred in the worst math equation ever
But that season is gone giving merit to the saying 'everything passes eventually' that I fully subscribe to
So here's a manifesting post!
Honestly one of the worst times to be a manifesting girlie is when it feels like everything is going wrong. So, how do you keep to it and keep manifesting?
In my opinion, take a break.
Now I know the community preaches reaffirming and reaffirming and reaffirming and that is a good thing, don't get me wrong.
But, at the same time, in my experience, if you start doubting those affirmations that is worse than if you forget about them.
See, you've already told the universe what you want. The second you decided its yours, you have it. The process of affirming and redoing it is to keep yourself in the right mindset, not to affect the universe. It's there to make sure you don't accidentally affirm something else that contradicts what you want.
So when you're down and unable to truly without doubt affirm, stop thinking about it. It's a lot better (again, in my experience) to simply forget about it. Of course, this comes into adopting a detached stance - do not, even in this trying time, agonise over not having your desire.
I recommend the late package attitude, a metaphor I've never seen better explained than what happened to a friend a few days ago. We live in a block of student accomodation in the UK, so after a certain time at night there's noone at the front desk and couriers can't get in. But, there's a phone number (very visibly on a sign outside) they can call to be let in and drop the package off with security. However, my friend has had a string of the worst luck where the couriers are refusing for some reason to call the number and keep flagging it as 'unable to deliver'.
In this, the package is your desire. The universe is trying to send it, you want to recieve it, the couriers are being a bit pathetic about getting it to you. So, whilst this issue is out of your hands and up to the universe to employ some better messengers, take a breath and take a break. No need to keep reminding yourself that you're supposed to have your desire already, just sit tight and go do something else. Come back in a week if the couriers are still being pathetic about it and then get in contact with the universe again when you feel more positive and willing to fight with the shitty delivery service.
And remember, this is your craft. Of course take advice, but it is your manifesting. It's always okay to take a break and come back.
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