Kill the victim mentality = Live your dream life
We all have a dream life in our mind. We fantasize about being rich, successful, beautiful, having the perfect body, perfect relationship, perfect house, perfect job, etc. The law of assumption teaches us that we can have all of these things if we shift our awareness to the life in our mindβs eye, rather than focusing solely on the mirror (physical reality) that reflects our predisposed perception of the physical. The problem that everyone runs into, and some people get stuck there while others abandon it, is the victim mentality.
Not all of us have the same circumstances or desires, but we all have the same 24 hours in a day. You can either use that 24 hours to think about your new car, your partner who is obsessed with you, the large sums of money that mysteriously appear into your account, that trip to another continent youβre going on soon, that birkin your fanboy just bought you, the compliment the lady on the train gave youβ¦ or you can waste those 24 hours self-loathing and complaining about the most minor inconveniences, which then traps you in a cycle of experiencing unfavorable circumstances that create more negative thoughts.
What. you. focus. on. GROWS. I really donβt care if you feel like youβre lying to yourself or not. Think & speak of the things you WANT, not the stuff that stresses you out. You can feel your feelings, you can have bad or lazy daysβ what you canβt do, however, is spend every single day hating on everything that exists, only to ask yourself why everything sucks. Itβs cause your mindset sucks.
THE 3D HAS NO CHOICE BUT TO REFLECT YOUR CONSISTENT THOUGHTS.
With that out of the way, how do we kill the victim mentality? To accept that youβre not a freaking victim of a circumstance you mentally created. Stop the woe is me BS. Your imagination is your canvas, youβre the artist, so why are you painting a sad picture if you hate depressing art? Youβre picking up the brush to paint your own problems, then you get mad and punch holes in the painting you made. Throw that shit in the trash and light it on fire, it doesnβt serve you.
You select your identity everyday and every night. Before bed, replay your day in your mind, but alter it to fit your desired reality. Want a new car? New house? $1k? Re-create your day in your imagination as youβre falling asleep, change the things you donβt like and allow yourself to be fully immersed. Immerse yourself so deep in your little perfect world, that it causes you to laugh and smile like an idiot. Really enjoy it like it actually happened, because it did. Stop replaying embarrassing moments, losses, failures, rejections, etc. It doesnβt exist. The past & future can only be what you create, so create positive experiences. Fall asleep in good memories (real memories or ones youβve created, your subconscious knows no difference), wake up thinking positively. Affirm in your favor and youβll generate favorable experiences.
Negative thoughts on loop = Negative experiences
Positive thoughts on loop = Positive experiences
