I’m just curious- why are you posting kink content with your cluster b content? It feels like a weird combo when you could have two different blogs for it
It’s because they’re heavily connected, and I don’t think I’d be able to address one without the other. MAYBE I could be kink centric without mentioning my ASPD, but my ASPD plays into my kinks and especially into my obsession issues- which is actually the main focus of this blog!
My experiences with obsessive & possessive urges are impossible to address without addressing the ASPD and empathetic issues that come along with it. The royalty theming is even an ASPD thing, because it’s an aesthetic and concept that’s comforting to me.
I’ve always felt separate from the people around me, and the way to combat the “and I am broken” is to look myself in the eyes and say “and my difference is inherently valuable.” That’s a lot easier to accept if I let myself play with the concept of royalty.
+ I’m an adult man, who has adult/sexual urges and needs, which also relate to my ASPD because EVERYTHING in my life relates back to ASPD in some way. Going completely down the web of connections just ends with “and it’s a personality disorder so it is literally effecting my whole personality”
There’s also a lot in the kink scene that really. Isn’t great for people with personality disorders, especially the stigmatized ones. People tend to look at those with ASPD as completely unsafe scene partners, or fetishize our lack of empathy into being The Worlds Most Dominant Dom. It’s like how people with BPD get fetishized into needy pathetic subs when in reality that’s. Not it. At all.
Intersectionality and all that. Hope this makes sense!
