[let me introduce myself]
9. tattoos i want (/‘tattoos currently under consideration’)
‘i aten’t dead’ on my ankle, possibly + bees, flowers, growing things
waves. other ankle, or something
some music (after a long + careful thought process to settle on the right thing)
something?? on my upper arm?? both because personal significance and because it kinda looks really cool??
none of these (except possibly the first) are remotely definite or set in stone, and there are so many more thoughts i have now i’ve started... actually thinking about doing this thing
12. ideas of a perfect date (i am here using the general ‘you’, obviously!)
take me to a bookshop or a library, like seriously. we don’t have to buy anything but talking about books is a really good one for me, and these are environments in which i feel comfortable, which is good, because the whole ‘date’ thing can feel really uncomfortable
picnic by the seaside. (really, anything by the seaside. you want to go for a freezing walk on the beach in the middle of winter? I’M GAME, LET’S GET CHIPS)
a concert, classical or otherwise, especially if it’s music you love. i can get into just about anything if it’s something you’re passionate about. (this one definitely needs time for chats or even just basking in the excellence of music afterwards)
is staying in and curling up together with a film/tv a date? does it matter? because that. (bonus points if: blanket fort, cats)
honestly, though, the company and the conversation is the absolute most important. let’s have honesty + openness, compassion, good listening skills, ENTHUSIASM, sharing, humour
(though until v recently it was truly, madly, deeply, which i still think everyone should see because juliet stevenson and alan rickman and the best soundtrack because classical music oh gosh this is a close second still)