secondhermione said: I love you. I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this - it wasn’t your fault and you didn’t deserve it. Your thoughts and feelings are completely justified, and I don’t think you’re crazy, just in a vulnerable place atm. Heartbreak is an awful thing.
ereshkigal said: i’m so sorry love. your pain and hurt is so valid though, fuck him. you have the best of wishes from me. <3
steinbecks said: your feelings are valid and legitimate and you’re not insane. from everything you’ve said, it sounds like he deliberately kept things from you, but there is no reason for you to doubt the reality of what happened.
thank you, guys. this means a lot to me. I’ve been so scared that i’ve been feeling entitled to something from him, but I think I really just want an acknowledgment that something went wrong.
and i know I won’t get that from him. but it helps to hear that I’m not the bad guy. (not that i’ve behaved perfectly, i just mean it’s a relief that others think my perception of what happened is valid.) I’ve wondered if I need to apologize to him or make amends. but i’d rather keep my distance.