#selfshipping positivity

[rosesyumeship]

YOU 🫵🏾

Yeah, I'm talking to you!

I refuse to hear you talk down about yourself for loving a fictional character.

i refuse to listen to you shaming yourself for thinking that your F/O wouldn't love you.

Stop making excuses to throw yourself under a bus. Selfshipping gives you the creativity to do WHATEVER WHAT YOUR HEART DESIRES

Wanna get married to them? Go have a big wedding, put that wedding dress/suit on!

Wanna have a big celebration for their birthday? Do it! Buy that cake, decorate that room of them!

You wanna gush about how you love them? Speak loud and proud about it!

What's holding you back? NOTHING. You have the whole power to whatever YOU want.

Now, raise your head up And let your F/O know how much you love them! Be kind to yourself! That's what your F/O wants! life is way too short to care about what people think, the only thing that matters is that you do it in a healthy manner but also use it to pick yourself up.

Yeah, we have those days and stuff but you gotta realize that you control how they feel about you. Use a healthy mindset to let them love you.

Selfshipping can be a wonderful thing if you let it be. You got this and go let people know how much you love your F/O ❤️

[selfstimmer]

your f/o is... protective, to say the least.

in public, its no secret - they lace their fingers into your own, palms clasped tight, shoulders brushing yours. they take care to watch, mindful and weighing everything you say and the ways you react to the world around you. in particular, they're quite watchful of when other people come your way: an arm around your waist, a hasty debrief after, clearing their throat if they disapprove of someone's tone towards you.

you drift off in bed at night, cared for and adored. scooped into your f/o's arms, wrapped up tightly in their embrace, they whisper to you of how much they love you and will keep you safe. your eyelids are heavy, but youre sure, with certainty, they'll be there to remind you again in the morning.

[kruxband]

maturing is realizing that your F/O(s) love YOU

not your perfect self-insert

not your idealized flawless self

not the fake personality you perform around other people

but you, the *real* you, complete with all your flaws and insecurities and imperfections

you are enough for your F/O(s) and you deserve their love

[pro/comship DNI]

[flowering-darkness]

wishing disabled selfshippers a safe and happy disability pride month~

(also to selfshippers with disabled F/Os!)

I hope that this month can be kind to all of us!

[modifiedlemon]

for no reason whatsoever (cough cough) i just want to say that this blog is a safe space and a place of comfort!

your f/o loves you sooooo much and would never ever want to hurt you, or purposely do anything that would put you in danger, or make you feel bad.

[us-angels-together]

Shout Out to Selfshippers Who...

Use selfshipping as a comfort or coping skill

Have been selfshipping for years

Spend hours a da, daydreaming about their selfships

No longer feel lonely because of their selfships

Write x reader fan fiction of their selfships

Read x reader fanfiction of their selfships

Feel jealous over canon relationships their selfship may have

Divider found on @lostsozai 's account

[moriaenships]

fat positive for selfshippers #013:

your f/o(s) are not ashamed to be seen with you. in fact, quite the opposite; they are PROUD to be seen with you. you are their partner, their most beloved.

your being fat doesn't change anything. they love being with you, being around you, and they love being seen with you. they are proud to have you as their partner.

they show you off gladly. they talk you up when you aren't around, bragging about you, and they are smug when you are around because you are theirs.

[metall1c-lum1nary]

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Imagine this. It's 9:40 pm and it's thundering outside, you're cuddling with your f/o in the dimmest of lights and their touch and warm. You never thought you'd feel this safe in your life, yet here you are. Their hand pets your head and holds you close as they hush you sweet nothings.

Things really do get better, it's just that the future is scary until we're in it. Your f/o is so proud of you, and you should know it. They'll always love you no matter what.

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