Bit from Jared M&G
Question: About how there were times times where people that mistreated Sam, Sam had to work with them again, or forgave them, and how Jared thinks the conversation/reunion between Sam and Ruby in season 15 (when Cas talked to her in the empty) would've looked like
Jared: Talking about how Sam holds things very "close to the vest" and that he in a way was a poker player where he would talk (to people who hurt/abused him) and be like "Hi, how you doing?🙂" like he was okay but it was really all the wheels turning in his head. So he thinks Sam, with meeting Ruby again, would be very protective of himself but also really curious. He talks about how when you live long enough, you're gonna meet people who hurt you in the past, and how Sam tries not to focus too much on grudges because it makes you miserable/hurts you more than the other person. So he thinks Sam was trying to get to a point where he'd like, acknowledge his pain and feelings, but tries not to harbor them or keep them in the front of his mind, because "hatred is like drinking poison and hoping the other person dies". So he thinks Sam wouldve kept/tried to keep his bearings when meeting Ruby, but because when Ruby revealed her plan in S4 she was immediately killed ("then Uncle Jensen comes in and stabs her, which will be a fun episode to watch with my kids"), Sam never really had the chance to ask "Why?". So he would've been interested in the why, because Sam in general is so concerned with the Why's and so curious













