🤔🤔🤔 . Reposted from @_bethanywalker_ (@get_regrann) - What is it to be emotionally available? It is offering reliable, emotional nourishment to our partner. Listening without judgement, being open to their influence, cultivating trust, endeavoring to understand, being receptive & present & curious & invested in our partner’s internal world. ✨ It is not crumbs of affection & empathy. It is not sometimes I respond warmly when it is convenient for me. ✨ If someone is not emotionally available for us, and we willingly chase them anyway. We are chasing fantasy, not reality. We are in a state of denial. We are in denial of accepting what is & we are being denied our emotional needs. What does that say about our value? ✨ . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #healingtrauma #healingfromtrauma #healingfromwithin #healthyboundariesforkindpeople #healthyboundaries #setboundaries #boundariesarehealthy #emotionallyunavailable #emotionallyavailable #setyourstandards #livingindenial #saferelationships #attachmenttrauma #traumabonding #traumabond #consciousrelationships #couplescounselling #couplescounseling https://www.instagram.com/p/B3MXzfPFOgL/?igshid=e5qr0offf2u4




















