A friend shared her nightmare of being sexually assault once when she was young and the time she was 17. Actually it is not a nightmare, it is a reality. It happened.
Out of nowhere the topic comes out and she told about the incidents
At the age of 6 or around that, she was heading back from playing at the river in her neighborhood . She came there with her brother and cousins but since it seems late, she decided to go home but her brother insisted on staying in the river for a little while. Then, come the asshole, offering his company to the girl. Oh yeah, she was living in village, surrounded with woods. All the way, heading home suddenly the asshole dragged her , *i could not remember to where, but the only thing I remembered, that gal or my friend said “ At that time I don’t really know what was happening but it just feels weird. Only now I realized, what he did was totally fucked up. I kinda lucky cause I did not felt any pain at that time which means he might not go so so far. Maybe”
That words probably just to ease herself in front of me. Idk cause I dont feel like asking even more since the fact I got the first hand of hearing those things just make me mad, and hurt her pride why would I want to know more.
Then, she added naturally.
But that was when I was young.
You know, my uncle, he touched me without me have the guts to move or even pushed him away. That happened when I was 17 , right in front of my house. He was repairing the tire of my mom’s car. At the moment , the whole family were inside including his wife and daughter as his family came to my house, and asking her pleasure to repair the car was kinda normal isnt it as we were all family. I was watching him doing his work which suddenly his other hand touched me. *I hate to describe the story in details. I was so terrified at the moment cause I did not expect this to be happening and the thoughts of ‘he is a guy and if I scream what if he did more than that to shut me up’.. Since I was not reacting at all , he thought I was giving a green light for a further progress but as soon as he was correcting his position, I moved and ran straight into my house.
And me, that was listening to that story , ohmg wtf happened. I thought those stories about shits are not real. It is real but I could not believe it was happening to someone close to me. I hope those guys received severe punishment for as long as he lives until he died. I was and am so mad that I think this writing should come to an end for now.
So sorry for anyone whom experienced the same thing.
I hope you stay strong and fight it. Dont let them consume you and destroy your life physically but also mentally. Do what ever you can but stay firm and I wish you succeed in life with people who values you . XOXO