a little context for the title. i (18m) absolutely love my partner LET THAT BE KNOWN. but i’ve had my grindr profile even before meeting them and i cannot just GET RID of it. there’s too many memories. besides, monogamy has always infringed on my rights of freedoms.
anyway, my partner found out a couple days ago. we were chilling in some restaurant as we waited for our order. i had to take a pee super badly so i went to the bathroom, leaving my phone at the table we were sitting at. well, upon getting back, my partner was gone, and all that was left was my phone. with an opened grindr notification . . .
at this point i was utterly confused. disoriented if u will . . . because how could i just be abandoned like that?
anyway i tried calling them. five times. and not once was my call picked up. i really am genuinely confused . . . i mean i get it might be “cheating” but also i don’t think so. it’s more like experimenting. my partner won’t let be talk to them AT ALL and this has been honestly eating at me for days.
reddit, tell me, am i the asshole here? i really dont think so . . .
| u/cheetahprint..chigiri: based off title alone you’re the asshole like tf
| u/isagiyoi.11: This is a crazy one . . . Honestly if I were you I’d just go back to being single. YTA
| u/saeitoshi10: 😂 yta
> u/shidouisdeepinside: well hey there peachie 👀 wna do sum strange for a piece of change?
> u/saeitoshi10: ?
| u/onazilovesyou: now if this isnt the saddest thing i’ve ever seen … yta 😟
| u/H_Buratsuta: It all depends on the length of the relationship. Data points suggest that around the 3 month mark is when partners become majorly attached and co-dependent. If the relationship has surpassed that margin, then I believe YTA. If not? NTA
| u/xxotoya.exx: preach about the monogamy thing like holyyyy 😩 u are NTA bcs u speak the truth
> u/shidouisdeepinside: WE TWINS u should come over 👀👀 jk lolz …. orrr??
| u/rinthedestroyer: ew yta u sound like a bug go die
> u/shidouisdeepinside: okay wtf who pissed on your pillow
| u/poof!itsness: Check out Michael Kaiser’s podcast for more advice ! :) “The Blue Rose Blooms Again”
| u/teddyknightnotbear: Click this Link for Free Shipping On all Orders
> u/iggybunny: aw man :( now my phone just has hentai ads
| u/reoreoreo03: theyre probably homophobic i’d suggest breaking up with them and embracing who u truly are #nta
| u/julianloki.therealest: LMFAOOOOO dude i think u gotta break ur shit cuz ts is too much… yta.. LMFAO STOP IM DYING LIKE WTF IS THIS
> u/itzcharleschevy: hey lokz
> u/julianloki.therealest: log off bruh
| u/bumblingbachirahehe: grindr is crazy. 🤪 . i suggest talking to a counselor maybe it’ll help!! 😜🤠🫶
| u/keepingitrealbyhugo.v: Breathe. You’re not a villain. You have a tenderness to you, I can sense it :). Honestly, you’re a vibe! ✨
> u/shidouisdeepinside: fucking bot this doesnt help
| u/Chris.Princeisonline: I support the gays!! <33333 I am NOT homophobic!!
> u/Noel_Noa: Who was saying you were? Performative.
| u/oikawainthehouse: eesh been there nta
. . .
it appears shidou was indeed the asshole
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