i saw an infographic for transmascfem and it got me thinking… if it doesn’t exist already, there should be an identity label/flag for when one is transmascfem but NOT just only one — like, they’d be either transmasc OR transfem regardless but are only the other conditionally & simultaneously with it. this probably doesn’t make sense so take me as an example: i’m bigender as someone who was AFAB (for lack of a better term, i apologize), so the way i experience it would be that i’m always transmasc, but only transfem due to my gender being partial/split & complex (basically just non-conforming), and if it was full/mono/binary instead then i’d either be a trans man or a cis woman and therefore transfem wouldn’t apply.
the best way i can describe it if this is still confusing is gendertulip & genderlotus as modalities rather than alignments.
It sort of reminds me of some terms I coined a while back: Simulneumasc and simulneufem. Identities that are both neutral/masc and neutral/fem inseparably. Maybe something like your experience would be called simulmascfem? It would be a masculinity that cannot exist without femininity and vice versa.
Or, does the trans- prefix indicate a relation to AGAB for you? I feel like transimulmascfem is a huge mouthful, but I don't want to miss the trans part of the term if it's important to you.
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