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sinclair sexsmith, 2009
Sinclair Sexsmith reviews A Lesson in Vengeance by Victoria Lee
Sinclair Sexsmith reviews A Lesson in Vengeance by Victoria Lee
I got my hands on an advanced reader’s copy of A Lesson in Vengeance by Victoria Lee, which is a dark academia, witchy, teenage boarding school sapphic romance which includes seances, a three hundred year old murder mystery, and ghosts. After seeing about it from the author herself on Tiktok, I had to keep an eye out for it. I suspected I would enjoy it, and I really did. I will definitely pick…
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T., my best friend and big crush... Our friendship was a romance and we courted as much as anyone. Brunches, wine, take-out and late-night chats until I had to call a car to get home because the subways were no longer running. Desire and desire and desire. I thought we would eventually have a go of it, if I stuck around. We never did. I learned not to get too romantically involved in friendships, as it’s so hard to de-escalate to a softer friendship, so they often result in a more serious friend breakup.
—View From The Top: A Short History of What I Learned From Dating by Sinclair Sexsmith
i was talking to Baby Sister last night about relationships, and real hunger for a partner, and whether it's possible—for us, at least, whose mother shaped us to see love in a lack of appreciation—to feel that hunger, fierce and blazing and lighting us up, for anyone who treats us well; and i said slowly, i think maybe the closest i've come is with C, and i think even there, it was a thing of shards, sharp-edged: as a friend, i loved her enormously, and felt myself loved in return; but as a lover i felt desperate and grasping and insatiable, and welcome only sometimes, in an unpredictable, unreliable way; and so really, in the end, i think i was nourished by the one girl, and hungry for the other, and they aren't reconcilable after all.
Life goal:
Have real life conversations with Guy New York and Sinclair Sexsmith
I got to see Sinclair Sexsmith speak today along with some other amazing people. They were incredible! Queer and Now Conference De Anza College