For the OTP meme: mShenko or (if you've already gotten that) Shepley~
mShenko (since I haven’t worked out many details for Shepley, however I do ship Shep x Kaidan x Ash and have some hcs~)
Who made the first move; Kaidan did, John wanted to but he thought that he isn’t good enough for him
Who said ‘I love you’ first; Kaidan, it scared John at first because he’s never gotten that far in a relationship so he couldn’t put it into words, after Kaidan confessed John immediately said ‘I love you too’
How often they fight: They don’t really fight, it’s usually during or after a battle when John throws himself into danger and Kaidan starts yelling at him out of worry. They do have ‘boyfriend spats’ when they fight over small things like which side of the bed they should sleep.
Whose big spoon/little spoon; John doesn’t say it out loud but he prefers being the small spoon, it gives him a feeling of safety and for a moment he doesn’t need to carry the weight of the galaxy.
What their nicknames are for each other: They don’t really have nicknames? John sometimes calls Kaidan ‘K’ or the occassional ‘babe’. Kaidan once called John ‘JD’ to make fun of him (his middle name is Damon that’s why)
Whose the better cook; Kaidan. John can cook pretty well, but not as good as Kaidan.
Their song: Just one Yesterday by FOB and Between Two Points by the Glitch Mob, I even made a playlist ~self promo~
Who remembers their anniversaries; Both.
Their favorite thing to do together; Just lay in bed or on the couch and feel each others’ presence, no one says anything, they just lay there and enjoy the moment. Other than that they like watching old school sci-fi movies.
Who ‘wears the pants’ in the relationship: None? Both? They’re not in that kind of relationship tbh
How they would get engaged; John invites Kaidan on a dinner and does the stereotypical “ring in champagne” thing, however Kaidan almost chokes on the ring because he didn’t notice it and he was thirsty 👀
What their wedding would be like; Small, private, with their closest friends and family.
How many kids they’ll have; None. However, I do have some headcanons for them having a kid, but in canon they don’t have children. Mainly because John feels like he won’t be a good father. But they have tons of doggos.
