who hogs the duvet: the one called captain cold, obvswho texts/rings to check how their day is going: ray always sends cutesy little messages to len throughout the day and len thinks it’s disgustingly adorablewho’s the most creative when it comes to gifts: i wanna say len, but he’s also hella lazy most of the time, so probably ray who gets up first in the morning: well ray doesn’t sleep sowho suggests new things in bed: they both do, a fair amountwho cries at movies: ray will straight up sob hysterically if a dog dies (don’t dare watch a dog’s purpose with him) who gives unprompted massages: len has magic handswho fusses over the other when they’re sick: leonard ‘i don’t care about anybody or anything’ snart is the biggest worry wart when it comes to ray being sick. ray would rather just get on with his life and work through being sick but len absolutely will not allow this! he forces him into bed with soup and doesn’t let him leave until he’s gone at least 24 hours without a feverwho gets jealous easiest: len, but it doesn’t happen often bc he’s pretty confident in his relationship with raywho has the most embarrassing taste in music: len likes to think he’s all cool, listening to foreigner, captain and tennille, the eagles, etc but he also still listens to the backstreet boys and new kids on the block, so he has no room to talkwho collects something unusual: ray collects soft blankets because they make him happywho takes the longest to get ready: it takes forever for ray to get his hair to lay just right, meanwhile len rolls out of bed and is ready to gowho is the most tidy and organised: organised? tidy? raymond palmer doesn’t know themwho gets most excited about the holidays: actual puppy ray palmer wants to celebrate every single holiday, even st patrick’s day, and he’s not even irish. len does get fairly excited about christmas, bc it means he gets to spoil ray and lisawho is the big spoon/little spoon: ray is the big spoon and len is the little spoon, fight me on thiswho gets most competitive when playing games and/or sports: surprisingly, ray has a pretty big competitive nature, and he’s especially ruthless when it comes to monopoly. sara had to ban the game on the waveriderwho starts the most arguments: len will purposefully push all of ray’s buttons when he gets boredwho suggests that they buy a pet: ray, bc he loves dogs and cats so much, but since he’s hella allergic to anything with fur they end up with a snake that they call oliver (len chose the name)what couple traditions they have: they spend each anniversary standing on the roof of a building throwing water balloons at unsuspecting victims below, don’t ask me why they just dowhat tv shows they watch together: the walking dead, game of thrones, and survivorwhat other couple they hang out with: mick and nate ofc, amaya and sara too, and also rip and jonah on occasionhow they spend time together as a couple: typically just being in each other’s presence in any way is just fine with them. sometimes they cook together, a lot of times they just enjoy watching movies and/or tv together, every once in a while they spend time in ray’s lab together, ray teaching len about all the things he’s working onwho made the first move: ray bc len is a useless queer that can’t handle feelingswho brings flowers home: len, because it makes ray smile this ridiculous smile that he loveswho is the best cook: they’re both fairly good cooks, but len is definitely better, mostly because ray is pretty lazy and would live off of microwave meals if left to his own devices