I wanted to send you a request but then i saw you were having the worst type of days. So instead, here's a thought: years will pass and so will the embarassment. What won’t pass is the pride you will feel at the fact that you stood up for yourself and that takes courage. We're taught at a Young age to please others before yourself, which always end up turning on us. So be a problem and be selfish, there's nothing wrong about putting yourself first.
Was keeping this in my ask box for longer so I could keep re-reading this.
THIS- is so accurate and so enlightening like I didn't expect people to understand so well what I was going through then...and this is truly the advice I needed...thank you so so much. This is honestly one of the BEST advices ive gotten here on this app. 👏🩷
Praying for you so that even on your worst days you receive the same support I have received from you... ♡
P.S. you can send in requests darling you are so considerate I swear! 🥺